Do you take off your shoes?

Do you take off your shoes before entering a house?

  • Yes! I like my house clean

    Votes: 131 82.4%
  • No, I like it dirty

    Votes: 4 2.5%
  • I do it sometimes.

    Votes: 19 11.9%
  • Only when I go to sleep

    Votes: 5 3.1%

  • Total voters
    159
I'm an American born and raised citizen. Spent most of my life in California. Hopefully I can help quench the curiosity of those asking why Americans wear their shoes indoors.

It's a combination of a few things ranging from least important to most...

3) Hygiene: As some have guessed, some Americans are self conscience about their foot hygiene or odor. Yet this usually isn't an issue often enough to warrant not removing shoes. Since usually an American with a problem with foot odor has taken precautions (such as foot powder) to stifle the scent.

2) Convenience: Also a rare reason. Moving in and out of the house several times a day can make taking shoes off and putting them on tedious. It is an excuse used enough times to list as a category, but not enough to define the shared American mindset to keeping shoes on indoors.

3) Casualness: This is the American hallmark in the attitude that Americans tend to share on most things and keeping shoes on is no different. To an American, their home is a place where they want family, friends, and company to feel as relaxed as possible. Work hard, play harder; don't fret the small stuff. That's how we approach life as a philosophy. We figure we have to clean the place anyways, so why bother taking shoes off? This leads to a lot of vacuuming, sweeping, and carpet shampooing.

Now, do Americans think it is more practical to take shoes off before entering the house? The majority of us do. We think it's a great idea actually and oftentimes laugh about how the practice never caught on in America (the practice of removing shoes that is.) Yet it's easier to stick with our routine because some of us Americans don't like to trouble friends to take their shoes off when they come over. Since those friends are used to keeping them on anyhow.

If the shoes are soaked, muddy, dusty, etc.. Then by default we will remove them before entering the house. Usually when we don't wear shoes indoors we will walk around with socks on. It's rare to see American homes have slippers in them. The exception to this is use of bathroom slippers, which some American households do use. Yet very rarely are slippers (bathroom or not) ever provided for guests to use.
As for Americans who place their feet on the bed while wearing shoes. This is rare too. This is one of the rare moments when we say to each other. "Hey man. Whatcha doing? Get your feet off there." Unless it is their own bed, in which case we usually ignore it or might make a comment. "Damn. You're not even going to take your shoes off before doing that?"

Interestingly enough. Even though Americans find it dirty to put shoes on the bed. We often don't care if shoes are placed on tables. It usually depends on what that table is used for however. If it is a table for general use, then it's usually ok. If the table is used for placing drinks on, then also this is often not a problem. If it is a dinner table, then it becomes an issue. However even in this case, it is often forgiven or allowed.

I hope this information helps.
 
They used to wear things called getas that raised them up off the ground to avoid mud and poop. If you wore them into the house,(now keep in mind Japanese ceilings are real low, about 4FT6IN) you would bang your head on eveything. So now you go into the entryway of a Japanese home there are several hundred sandals, flip flops, and slippers which greatly lower your height. And always remember to search around to find matching pairs; very impolite to not match !!!!
Frank
:p just kidding 😊

Are Japanese ceilings really that low?

On topic, I usually do take of my shoes at home, not always though, generally I either go on my socks or on slippers.
 
In Poland, we also have the custom of taking the shoes off when entering our own home. A lot of people will offer slippers to guests, but if it is a professionally dressed person i don't think its common to ask them to take off their shoes.
 
i dunno, i always take my shoes off when i go to my friends' houses, and they take their shoes off when they go to mine. my dad is so lazy about taking his shoes off as soon as he gets home tho, my mom pretty much has a heart attack every time :-)
 
I've never been taught that it's important to take off my shoes in the home. But whenever I come home from being out, I tend to kick my shoes off just for the sake of freeing my tired feet. 😏 My kids and my Hunny also do the same. It's kinda strange, since we've never instilled this as law in our home. When guests visit, we do not obligate them to take off their shoes because.. well, we don't.

My big sister, however, lays it down as a *strict* rule in her home for family and guests alike. So ironic, really. She was born in Japan (she's African-American, like me), but has no interest in learning anything about Japan... but that's another story...

The poll that the OP set-up, is kind of unfair, however... I do not "like it dirty", though it may become dirty if we kept our shoes on... I would have my floors cleaned all the same.
 
It is a tradition to take off our shoes before entering the house. We can put our shoes inside the house but we have to take them off before entering. I don't think it's because Mom wants her house to be clean. Maybe it's just part of the clean house thinking but I think there's a belief which I can't be bothered to ask. I just do what I was told and it feels good to walk around without shoes ^^
 
i don't take my shoes off when i'm at my own house till i get to my room. But when i go to my (ex) boyfriends house he tells me just as long as i dont have really dirty shoes i can keep them on but i dont feel comfortable so i take them off
 
Most of the Pacific countries have the custom of leaving one's shoes outside when entering a home.
 
I take my shoes off, but my family doesn't. :(
 
I always take my shoes off. I can enjoy and walk barefoot all over the place. I am not sure why would anyone run around his house (or even bedroom, bathroom) with the same shoes that are used outside.
 
I always take my shoes off. I can enjoy and walk barefoot all over the place. I am not sure why would anyone run around his house (or even bedroom, bathroom) with the same shoes that are used outside.

Not only is it more comfortable without the shoes on, but your floors don't get so dirty!
 
i don't wear shoes indoors, but not because I think its dirty, but rather it's uncomfortable, I even go outside bare foot sometimes (only at my house though).
 
In my own house, I usually do, just out of comfort, but don't request it of anyone else, and if I'll have to go outside again within the next hour, often won't bother. When visiting others, I take them off if requested, but otherwise keep them on.

In my area of the US taking your shoes off in many people's houses can cause awkwardness since, as was mentioned earlier, feet, in America are often perceived as dirty and smelly. Even more so than shoes.

Also, to do so implies a certain amount of familiarity, like using -kun instead of -san. It impliest that you are planning to stay for an extended amount of time, and implies that you are as comfortable there as in your own home (which is a level of comfort that should be reserved for family of VERY close friends). It would be like helping yourself to whatever was in the refrigerator.
 
I always take off my shoes in my own home! I can't imagine walking around inside with the same footwear as I wear on the streets. Huge yuk! If I'm visiting in other homes, I follow suit and if they don't care whether I do or don't, I'll check their floors first.
 
Why? Well this is just a guess, but I think that in America a lot of people don't take off their shoes much, so there is this idea that feet are unclean and smelly. So taking off your shoes and revealing your dirty and smelly feet is rude. That's all that I can think of, though.

oh man im laughing at this 👍👍
 
When in Rome.
I go by that everywhere I live... so yes I take off my shoes!
Unless I forget something on my way out and I already have my shoes on, then I take a few steps in the house to grab whatever it is lol
 
Here in Swden it's very rare to see someone enter a house and NOT taking their shoes off. It would be considered kinda rude tbh...
 
This is one of the few things I adopted after my few months in Japan. It really helps keep carpets clean. If I had hardwood floors I don't think I would worry about it as much.
 
I approve of the fact that you should take off your shoes before entering any house, unfourtunetly, I have siblings (lazy siblings)... -.-
 
I am Japanese and I always take off my shoes when I get home.
We think the outdoors is dirtier than the indoors.
When I traveled abroad with my family in the old days, my mother brought slippers of all the family members for wearing in our hotel room.
We can be calm with our foot released in a clean room :)
 
well from where i come from its a customary to remove your shoes when entering a house, for hygienic reasons.
 
Yes, I take off my shoes before going in the house. It is not that common to the houses I visit in Japan because most of them are foreigners who transferred to the place. But just to keep the tradition going and to keep the house clean as well, I keep my shoes off before going in.
I make it a point for them to notice that I am doing it so that the next time they visit my house, they would know what to do. But it will still be up to them anyway.
 
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