- 11 Dec 2007
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me too like japanese girl for married.I'm interested in a Japanese woman, and, if things ever head in the direction of marriage, I'd like to know what I might be getting in for because I know very little about Japanese culture (something I'm trying to change). I'd appreciate the wisdom of anyone who might have some information on the subject. Thanks.
Oh my God! I'm wayyyy too feminist 2 be a good housewife. I literally wanted to jump thru the screen and punch the guys who stated those comments. :box:
There are many cultures that have the "perfect" wife according to some men not only Japanese. Mexicans, Indians, any latino race 2 be honest, etc. etc. However, these countries also are seen as oppressive when it comes to a woman's role in the family. There is quite a correlation between the two.
I'm Mexican but I was raised in the U.S. so I'm the complete opposite of the "perfect" housewife. My mom hates that about me. I don't cook very well, I don't clean, and I don't take care of my older brother when she's away (like feeding him, cleaning his room, washing his clothes, etc.). Let me just say this 2: my brother is 28.
Yeah I can c the feminist rising in some of you.Welcome to my world.
I like how a majority of people run for Japanese women always think of everything as a generality, and that everything is under the top key point of "hotness" with everything else being a far second.
hmm ok don't express too much of an opinion eh?
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please let me re-phrase
before getting involved with ANYONE from ANY other country it is worth taking into account the culture that person is from.
in SOME cultures....let's say for arguments sake France... it is perfectly normal for a man to have a wife and a mistress, infact they even say in France
"If you marry your mistress you create a vacancy"
I'll let you in on a little secret.
If all the young guys who have the hots to marry a Japanese women could be a fly on the wall when guys who have actually been married to Japanese women for a long time were sitting around talking frankly....they would run to Narita as fast as their little feet would take them.
A wise man, once remarked something to the effect that Japanese women look great on the showroom floor but marry one and she depreciates faster than a Cadillac.
I'll let you in on a little secret.
If all the young guys who have the hots to marry a Japanese women could be a fly on the wall when guys who have actually been married to Japanese women for a long time were sitting around talking frankly....they would run to Narita as fast as their little feet would take them.
A wise man, once remarked something to the effect that Japanese women look great on the showroom floor but marry one and she depreciates faster than a Cadillac.
Although I'll say my view is simple that finding a good woman, like finding good people, is damn rare. People suck every where in the world..
I'll let you in on a little secret.
If all the young guys who have the hots to marry a Japanese women could be a fly on the wall when guys who have actually been married to Japanese women for a long time were sitting around talking frankly....they would run to Narita as fast as their little feet would take them.
A wise man, once remarked something to the effect that Japanese women look great on the showroom floor but marry one and she depreciates faster than a Cadillac.
LOL.We marry the woman and not the country.
Personally my wife is more like a Suzuki Lupin, small and sexy, but with plenty of kick in her turbo.
Fortunately she never took the "busu" or "debu" pill that seems to get passed around at 30 to many married women here.
You know you're being morose when the Finns are remarking on your pessimism!