Stole my line again.
I neither want nor require an apology. I want you to conduct yourself more maturely and respectfully from now on. The past is over.
And there you go. That is not what I said. You read that into it.
What I meant was that possibly, every third Japanese woman, or fourth, or fifth, finds herself enjoying it on some level at least, or at least does not mind so much, perhaps at some certain times and not at others, with some certain strangers but not others, and indeed, its all dependent on many variables. How they feel about it afterwards would be another division.
And as much as we hear that things like groping and rape are under-reported, it would go a long way to help explain why.
Look, rape and groping and extremely difficult topics because its NOT dependent on specific actions but rather its dependent on the thoughts and feelings of the person in the sex act. Did you ever hear "You cannot rape the willing?" Well, its true. But we cannot always tell with certainty who is willing and who is not, who was not willing at first but became willing during, who is liking it but embarrassed by their own enjoyment or the concern that others may be watching, etc. This topic is very complicated, and it disturbs me when people try and simplify it beyond reason.
Effective strategies against rape and groping can be much better formulated by admitting the truth and talking about it candidly. Trying to convince women to deny their own feelings and realities with this propaganda that no women could ever enjoy it is the road to misunderstandings and errors that will not only trap some men unfairly, but also not properly allow women to conduct their own lives, affairs and feelings appropriately.
I also point out that some men are being trapped by scams from women falsely claiming to have been groped who have a gang waiting in the wings to extort money. And this sort of propaganda furthers such scammers ability to perform their evil.
I said NOTHING specific about Akin's comments, AT ALL. So what talking points could you possibly be referring to?
Even you have said nothing specific yourself, nor responded to my belief that you know of no truth in his comments.
And you dodged my rape fantasy question.
