1)
Yeah, right, "asking about procedures", therefore it also can mean "Where do we put the textbooks?" or "How/Where do we dispose of the textbooks?", etc., depending on the context.
2)
に indicates the reason/cause. The sentence expresses ~わけでもなかろうに(=ないだろうに)、なぜそんなに怖がるのか/驚くのか or something (the missing part must be mentioned in the preceding sentence).
3)
It's the same as それなしには / それがないと / それがなかったら.