Japan has always fascinated the world. I remember that quite some Dutch people living in Indonesia before WW II went on vacation to Japan, The Kimono's from Japan were worn by many Dutch ladies while eating their breakfast, my own mother had two of them, they were absolutely beautiful. I have spend quite a bit of my pocket money on Japanese toys bought in the Japanese shops in Malang in Indonesia. My father's barber was a Japanese and so was his photo-shop. A few Japanese children went to Dutch schools but most of them to special Japanese schools.
My father who was a ship engineer by the KPM in the former Dutch East Indies, before he married my mother, has been many times to Japan. He told me that he loved all the wooden houses in Yokohama and Tokyo and that he liked the very polite Japanese people. Yes, he was talking about the years between 1921 and 1925.
I, my father's eldest daughter, visited Japan in 2000, together with a group of Dutch ex-war victims from Japan in Indonesia.
The beautiful wooden houses my father had told me about, were gone. I could only see them as a model in a museum in Tokyo. The kimono's I saw during a show were very special, but didn't have that gentle touch of my mother's kimono's.
Kyoto, the golden temple impressed me, the Japanese landscape I saw while we were traveling by bus was absolutely lovely.
The only place that stole my heart was Nagasaki, it was not only beautiful, it was also a open and friendly town and so were the people living in that very pretty town.
I saw where the Dutch seamen lived about 400 years ago on the "island" Deshima ( guess I spell it wrong), every thing was very carefully kept in place.
I don't love Japan, I like Japan, I am interested in Japan, and I have two very nice Japanese friends.