Black guys and Japanese girls

[TOKYO64]

I saw something about white guys and Japanese girls but what about black guys with Japanese girls? I have a lot of experience in that category being a black man with hazel eyes it was crazy when I was living in Japan. Most of the time I felt like a piece of meat or someone's experiment. Of course I had my fair share of fun but I wouldn't recommend anyone find anyone serious unless they really get to know what they are about. You know a girl in Japan is serious when she introduces you to her family.

 

[El P8s]

It would probably be the same for an japanese or european guy in africe.^^

 

[Ahig63]

I know what you mean. I love Japanese women but when it came to meeting they're parents...wasn't going to happen!!!

 

[El P8s]

What about personality every moderatly liberal parent would allow her daughter to date anyone as long as she is happy so why shouldn't this be the case in Japan?

 

[Damicci]

It depends on the family. When I met my fiance's parents they wer codial and generally seemed interested in me. Considering they were not happy with the daughter marrying outsid eof Japanese at first. Her mom was realy nice but Japanese people can act when it comes to these kinds of things. So I don't know for a fact that this was the case but I won't completely disregard it. Honestly these kinds of questions are just as bad as Japanese and any other ethnicity so I wonder if we could just merge them into one big thread since genralization semms to be the "general" idea behind all this.

 

[El P8s]

So what would you think it be like if a white or asian guy would date a black woman in the majority of cases?
What would her family be like I can't really judge for myself ,because it's just the question which religion you have in most cases in Germany ,because there aren't that many different ethnicities.

 

[LincolnJackson2]

Well the funny thing about your question is that in America someone is always going to be unhappy about your partner regardless of ethnicity and what not. When it comes to who black women choose to date white guys tend to be last on the wishlist family wise. Most african american's families perfer that the partner is a minority more so than the majority here. I know in my family it is desired that my partner be african american but it is not demanded. I know that my family would be open arms regardless because its my decision. I have seen how people react to when a young beautiful black woman has a white guy on her arm versus another ethnicity, and its most of the time isn't right. If an asian guy was dating a black woman I think he would be more accepted than a white guy. And there are many different reasons for why, one being the history between african americans and white americans.

side bar: That's a picture of the movie Clockwork Orange right?

 

[Damicci]

I love typos.....

Anyway does it really matter. No matter what question you ask about this ethnicity and that one, your going to get just about the same answers. in some cases reaction 1 maybe more common then reaction 2. Either way your still going to suffer ignorance and prejudice. There is no reward for dating another ethnicity except for the love that is returned.

 

[ArmandV]

So what would you think it be like if a white or asian guy would date a black woman in the majority of cases?

If she looked like Halle Berry or Beyonce Knowles, I definitely would have no problem with it!

 

[El P8s]

Well the funny thing about your question is that in America someone is always going to be unhappy about your partner regardless of ethnicity and what not. When it comes to who black women choose to date white guys tend to be last on the wishlist family wise. Most african american's families perfer that the partner is a minority more so than the majority here. I know in my family it is desired that my partner be african american but it is not demanded. I know that my family would be open arms regardless because its my decision. I have seen how people react to when a young beautiful black woman has a white guy on her arm versus another ethnicity, and its most of the time isn't right. If an asian guy was dating a black woman I think he would be more accepted than a white guy. And there are many different reasons for why, one being the history between african americans and white americans.
side bar: That's a picture of the movie Clockwork Orange right?

Yes but isn't it a little immature to blame great grandchildren or whatever for a mistake their ancestors made?
Would it be any different if a white guy from europe dated a black american women?

And yep thats the clockwork orange dvd cover.

 

[LincolnJackson2]

Yes but isn't it a little immature to blame great grandchildren or whatever for a mistake their ancestors made?
Would it be any different if a white guy from europe dated a black american women?
And yep thats the clockwork orange dvd cover.

Immaturity lies in the fact that prejudice basised on skin color or any other basis exist. Also most aren't blaming great grandchildren for the wrong that their elders did but are upset with the fact that they enjoy the benefits of that wrong doing as well as ignorant bliss.

And no because if you look at it from that angle europeans hands were just as dirty as americans when it came to the slave trade.

 

[yukio_michael]

I've found that just about in every country out there---- there is some girl some where, who will "sport fu@k"... Sorry for my crassness, but that's the way it goes... if they really have a deep feeling for you, most of the time it doesn't really matter what the colour of your skin is.

Parents on the other hand... hoo boy...

 

[Mr.Kitsune]

When I dated a chinese girl she made sure that I was a good guy and blah blah blah blah before she brought me home to the parents. I think thats how you know that she wants you for the long haul

 

[El P8s]

Immaturity lies in the fact that prejudice basised on skin color or any other basis exist. Also most aren't blaming great grandchildren for the wrong that their elders did but are upset with the fact that they enjoy the benefits of that wrong doing as well as ignorant bliss.
And no because if you look at it from that angle europeans hands were just as dirty as americans when it came to the slave trade.

With the difference ,that the majority of the european population were slaves themselves like my family used to be serves on some lords land here so which benefit should they have taken from slavetrade?
And it to say slavetrage was a white thing is just a plain information there were plenty of black,asian oder southamerican indian slavetraders around although undoubtedly the majority as far as black slaves are concerned were probably american or english.

 

[leonmarino]

With the difference ,that the majority of the european population were slaves themselves like my family used to be serves on some lords land here so which benefit should they have taken from slavetrade?
And it to say slavetrage was a white thing is just a plain information there were plenty of black,asian oder southamerican indian slavetraders around although undoubtedly the majority as far as black slaves are concerned were probably american or english.

Um. No.

The majority of the European population weren't slaves. They were all part of a society, with some landlord having power to tax and exort many peasants. Slavery is different though because these people were bought, and were property of the lords.

It is true that many Africans participated in the slave trade by kidnapping, deceiving and selling their fellow men. However, the way the Europeans and Americans did it was disproportionate, and more cruel than African "customs".

And the Portuguese also participated in a lot of slave trade. I believe they were even the last country to abolish it. Actually, I read that the roots of the people in the Carribean are African slaves put there by Portuguese Jews.

 

[El P8s]

Defacto it is just the same thing neither the slaves nor the serves had any rights.
The slaves were bought and sold as a product themselves serves were part of the package consisting of lan people and natural resources.
Basically a normal product vs. a combi package.

 

[maushan3]

Um. No.
The majority of the European population weren't slaves. They were all part of a society, with some landlord having power to tax and exort many peasants. Slavery is different though because these people were bought, and were property of the lords.

Indeed, this was a time when most of Europe had its population living in misery and that's when the idea for the 'American Dream' comes, from these people escaping the misery, not slavery, they were living in Europe and coming to these 'Promised Land' in America.

So, any thoughts on the Black/Japanese couples sbject?

Mauricio

 

[El P8s]

What about japanese guys and black women?^^

No but seriously I think it shouldn't be a problem with a liberal family either way

 

[RevengeBabyYeah]

Is Japan's attitude liberal as a whole? I've never been there.TOKYO64- what kind of reaction did you get in Japan? Because even in England, even now when theres a mixed race couple in the streets they get so many weird looks and I can't help look myself because everyone elses attention just gets drawn to them.
I know loads of super traditional families from conservative cultures like Indian,Chinese and stuff like that who - if one of them has a partner of a different race- immediately form unfair stereotypical judgements on their attitude or looks.
i think mixed race/culture relationships are great and cheers to the couples that survive even in the face of prejudice

 

[ejay1]

I think japanese women are the most open to dating/sleeping with black guys then any other asian ethnicity
You have chosen the right country....other asian countries can be quite harsh towards black people

 

[Mike Cash]

The guy hasn't been here for five ****** years.....

 

[SevenStarsHK2N]

Indeed, this was a time when most of Europe had its population living in misery and that's when the idea for the 'American Dream' comes, from these people escaping the misery, not slavery, they were living in Europe and coming to these 'Promised Land' in America.

So, any thoughts on the Black/Japanese couples sbject?

Mauricio

lol sorry i have to correct you here.

old skool peasents in Europe actually lived a pretty good life.

the average serf only worked 150 days per year.
this included the time spent working for the lord, to pay the rent.
Most of the work done for the lords was actually quite light and was no more than 1/2 a day to 1 day per week.

So yea, imagine having the run of a house to yourself, and enough farm land to live off, and for this your rent is half a days labour per week.
the only other work you need to do is the farming to sustain yourself, which isn't much, as everyone in the villages and towns pitched in.

- ALSO

people did not go to America to escape persecution.
They did not go to america for Liberty.

It was actually the opposite.

who were the settlers in America?

the Puritans.

They left Europe and settled in America because they wanted to persecute people and felt that Europe was far too liberal / godless.

Europeans have been slaves in the past.
In fact the British navy was started as a force to stop north African slavers, who would sail to Britain and raid coastal towns, taking men women and children and making them slaves.

So yea - the whole American dream thing - is hollywood BS i am afraid. had nothing to do with the reason America was settled.

also it would never have been settled, had about 90% of the native population not been wiped out by a serious plague a few years before the white arrival.