Ewok85
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- 14 Nov 2003
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Why? Because I have met only 3 foreign women during my last 18 months here, and have met a few dozen Japanese women in the last 24hours...
Its all about numbers people.
why do so many foreigners date japanese women? bottom line,japanese women find foreigners hot,and foreigners find japanese women hot..end of story.
I dont think there is anything wrong with having a preference and not settling for anything less.If the guy is set on marrying a Japanese/Okinawan girl,then so what? thats his cup of tea.
I get so tiresome of people trying to come off like the morale high ground when it comes to race preferences."love everyone,you should be color blind when it comes to love blah blah blah"...look,NOBODY is blind when it comes to love,everyone has thier preferences that they demand from the opposite sex.To some it might be brunettes,or blondes,to others it might be rich guys,spunky women or people that drive nice cars...whatever it is,people have thier certain preferences that they are not willing to compromise on.
If a guy only wants to marry a Japanese girl because that is what makes him happy,then who are we to tell him that that is not the way to live and he should settle for something less? yes love the women your with because of WHO she is,but you dont have to give up Japanese girls or go for a differnet race to get a girl that you connect with emotionally.Its not a "one way or the other" type of situation.
if you want a Japanese wife...GO FOR IT! never let anyone tell you its not right or its cruel to exclude other races,because its not.There will be plenty of other guys out there looking for white girls,latin girls,black girls or korean girls etc..you have NO obligation to give equal time to all races,if your preference is Japanese,go for it.Dont settle.
just my 2 cents.
I tell myself that I will not look at this thread anymore, but it's just like a bad traffic accident I just gotta look. I can not believe all the stuff you guys believe about women.
I am sorry but I can't date you because I hear woman from your country don't clean their houses.
I'm glad my Japanese husband can use his mind and common sense.
Yes thats true,but the "race preservation" concept is really starting to show some cracks.Interracial dating is on the rise and really shows no sign of slowing down.This, I think, has always been the case... We see a lot of race preservation when we go out on the streets, it is, still nowadays, rather rare to see multi-racial couples and children. It is just that many peopl would rather be quiet about it, which is a very smart move.
Mauricio
Why? Because I have met only 3 foreign women during my last 18 months here, and have met a few dozen Japanese women in the last 24hours...
Its all about numbers people.
not just in Japan but in the US?
Then how come Asian girl/White guy couples are more common than Asian guy/White girl couples?
because you do not like them as a person, you like them merely as an object, because that is what you are doing. Objectifying people based on nationality.
FYI, more Japanese men marry foreign women than Japanese women marry foreign men.
Husbands Japanese 69.2
(164,788) Other Asians 8.8
Whites 17.5
Blacks 0.3
Hispanics/Latinos 2.7
Wives Japanese 50.9
(228,745) Other Asians 5.4
Whites 37.1
Blacks 1.7
Hispanics/Latinos 2.4
They aren't more common, the statistics show that. In your own head it may seem that you are right, but only because your situation only allows you to see that.
What you are saying is downright stupid. If you want to marry or date someone purely based on their nationality, then you are an idiot in my opinion. Its got nothing to do with morals, and it makes me feel sad for the poor person who you may eventually do this with, because you do not like them as a person, you like them merely as an object, because that is what you are doing. Objectifying people based on nationality.
These days, Asian Americans in interracial relationships are very common. One of the best research articles on this topic is a study conducted by Shinagawa and Pang entitled "Asian American Panethnicity and Intermarriage,"
I've written somewhere on this board that people who get too hung up on the nationality of a person may very well miss out on any number of other potential mates purely because they are too hung up on a nationality or race.
according to this scientific study,your wrong.Japanese women marry double the amount of whites than Japanese males but I wouldnt want to let the facts get in the way
not just in Japan but in the US?
Do u feel the same way about Japanese girls who ONLY date Asian guys? do you tell them they should date Whites etc becaus they might miss out on a potential mate? lol doubtful,its such a double standard.
Actually the stats I showed you WERE for Japan,the US stats were on another page.Let me clarify this, I wrote,
"FYI, more Japanese men marry foreign women than Japanese women marry foreign men" in response to
I should have deleted the US, because in Japan that just ain't true.
厚生労働省：平成18年度「婚姻に関する統計」の概況（人口動態統計特殊報告）
This is in Japanese
and
Ministry of Health releases marriage stats
This is in English.
And you may have overlooked the fact that I intentionally did not specify race either.
So let's not let a little thing like facts get in the way.
Interracial Dating & Marriage : Asian-Nation :: Asian American History, Demographics, & IssuesHusbands Japanese 62.7
(113,512) Other Asians 13.9
Whites 19.7
Blacks 0.3
Hispanics/Latinos 2.8
Wives Japanese 56.2
(117,243) Other Asians 11.2
Whites 28.1
Blacks 0.9
Hispanics/Latinos 2.6
You know I really agree with Greentea on some of this. I like asian women, I am simply more attracted to them than any other girl. I want an asian girlfriend/wife because thats what makes me happy. I dont see anything wrong with someone being hell bent on getting an asian girlfriend.
because you do not like them as a person, you like them merely as an object, because that is what you are doing. Objectifying people based on nationality.
maybe you shouldnt judge people based on thier preferences?
I like asian women, I am simply more attracted to them than any other girl. I want an asian girlfriend/wife because thats what makes me happy. I dont see anything wrong with someone being hell bent on getting an asian girlfriend.
Do you get the point that myself and a few others here are trying to make?
Noone has said anything about not being attracted to Asian women, just passing along some advice that one shouldn't limit their thinking that that's all there is and ain't no more.
As with any race or nationality and with either sex as well, things are not always greener on the "other" side of the fence no matter how much you may want or desire it to be true.
Mmm it sounds to me that you are also judging people that are advising others to look beyond race or nationality.
Sorry but no matter what I write here or others as well, I don't think you will ever truly understand the point of all of this.But if he only wants to date Asian women,and that is what makes HIM happy,whats the harm? maybe dating all kinds of women is what you like,but perhaps it isnt this guy's cup of tea? different strokes for different folks.
Why must he feel obligated to date other races if he doesnt want to? see,I really hate this way of thinking.Its almost like you and others lay guilt on people for going after just Asian women.Like its some 'naughty' thing to just like Asians,the attitude is basically "you dont want to be a shallow objectifying pervert right? then you should try other races too!",its just ridiculous.
and again,why isnt this same standard applied to Asian males who only date Asian females? are they not "objectifying" Asian females by ONLY dating Asians? or is that "ok" since they are the same race?
Sorry but no matter what I write here or others as well, I don't think you will ever truly understand the point of all of this.
Which is fine by me as I never expected anything different from you either.
Not true.Im willing to hear your side of this,in fact I think this is an interesting debate.If you have nothing to say,thats your choice,but dont do it on my behalf,I want to hear what you have to say.I might not agree with you but Im willing to keep an open mind and hear you out.