I think your sense of humor is OK. I find a lot of so-called "comedy" and "comic acts" in Japan unfunny. And hitting somebody for saying something stupid is debasing and humiliating. I haven't laughed watching them.My wife did find Big Man Japan pretty funny but I really couldn't get into it. Same for a lot of Japanese comedies, I just don't get why they are supposed to be funny. What takes the cake though are the "comedy" shows where they beat the guys with bats if they laugh at what some guy says. We get TV Japan so its mostly NHK that I see those on. On the other hand some of the "dramas" I find pretty funny. Maybe I just have a weird sense of humor?
I've actually been very interested in this issue lately. As I understand it, most Japanese people aren't really sarcastic to their friends and family members, right? Just as a side note, what sort of humor is usually the most normal in Japan?
Sadly, being that I'm just a cynical and sarcastic person, I'm a little afraid that I'll have to train myself to think a lot differently if I ever want to make a lot of friends in Japan without offending everyone.
Do they build their comic around clever, two-minded and easy to missunderstood words, like in nordic countries?
One, even small movment, can chance word meanig complety diffirens.
Is it like that?
And if we are going to deeper to find reasons and diffirens, i'm out.
Irony is also an element of humor in Japanese. However, this requires quite a mastery of the language and culture, that simply translating a ironic comment into Japanese has never been funny, AFAIK. You are correct to be careful when making such comments. It needs a lot of exploration into the different meanings of each term and expression.
I've actually been very interested in this issue lately. As I understand it, most Japanese people aren't really sarcastic to their friends and family members, right? Just as a side note, what sort of humor is usually the most normal in Japan?
Sadly, being that I'm just a cynical and sarcastic person, I'm a little afraid that I'll have to train myself to think a lot differently if I ever want to make a lot of friends in Japan without offending everyone.
My wife has told me that sarcasm isn't used in Japan but I don't know if that is just her family and friends or everyone. I could see how it may cause confusion as what you say may be taken literally/seriously.
I like both western and japanese sense of humor, different tastes and make me laugh to death...
while Japanese version uses body language the western version uses body language and language ( if you understand what i mean, sorry for my poor english )
I am a sarcastic person and do so quite often quip a sarcastic comment here and there. You just need to know how follow up after a comment if it goes over the persons head or they give a funny look, b/c sometimes someone will not let on that they may have been offended by a comment made in jest. So reading body language is very important IMO.Sadly, being that I'm just a cynical and sarcastic person, I'm a little afraid that I'll have to train myself to think a lot differently if I ever want to make a lot of friends in Japan without offending everyone.
I am a sarcastic person and do so quite often quip a sarcastic comment here and there. You just need to know how follow up after a comment if it goes over the persons head or they give a funny look, b/c sometimes someone will not let on that they may have been offended by a comment made in jest. So reading body language is very important IMO.
Absolutely! It is something that is certainly present in situations between good friends or colleges.Can Japanese be sarcastic with their friends, or is it somewhat of an "across the board" thing?
Like I said, I use sarcasm quite a bit to relieve tensions at work, so certainly it is possible to be on both the receiving and giving end.Also, do you think that a foreigner has a good chance of getting close enough to Japanese for it to happen, or would that be difficult?