I believe the level of this thread's discussion has dipped somewhat... I'm unsure why RockLee is starting to focus his anger at me, so if this continues into another angry argument thread, I'll have to ask Maciamo to lock this, because what is being discussed at present isn't really worth anyone's reading time.
RockLee said:
I know he posted some offensive things, but I didn't see anything really offensive that would get him a ban.
That may be true. You might not have seen anything offensive in particular, but apparently there were many others, including myself, who saw something offensive, and we made every effort to reason and argue with him before he got banned. Must we justify once again our arguments? Are you the sole, standalone arbitrator of what is to be offensive or not? I respect the fact that you have confidence in your own sense of what is right and wrong, but one's senses alone is never 100% perfect. Perhaps our moral consciousnesses differ that you feel so strongly in support of him (in which case I wonder why you did not participate or reason your arguments as strongly as you could in the McTojo threads)?
RockLee said:
You're implying too much, and I recommend you stop doing that.
Well, taking things at face value is not something I like to do, so... Anyway, there is no valid reason not to draw obvious implications from any statement, and you didn't really give a good point of argument with solid reasons for this particular quoted statement, so I'll leave it there.
RockLee said:
Then I advise you to check your rep and notice a feedback !
OK. I think we all know where this discussion is headed. I don't really mind that you gave me a bad rep point, but the reason for it was rather immature (or maybe that's why I don't mind in the first place), and suggests your hypocrisy as far as the abuse of the rep system goes. I won't give you a bad rep, because the last thing I want is to sink to that level of heated mud-slinging. I have already responded to what you addressed in the rep message, but for the sake of privacy, you'll have to dig around to find it.
RockLee said:
Why I gave him good rep is none of your damn business, it's private for a reason you know !
Which is
exactly why I told you
in more than one sentence that it's OK not to answer, and a simple no would have sufficed. I also added what I felt to be a valid reason why I asked (which was due to the manner in which you phrased your statement in question), but gave you the benefit of a doubt.
RockLee said:
But if you really want to know it, he said something I agree with (oh, isn't that the function of repping?

)
That may have been true (at least, in part). Then why did you not stand up for him more prominently before? The JREF forum is not
just about the rep points, you realize, but the discussions. Perhaps those discussions could have used your contribution. Logic would suggest that the fact that you are so strongly defensive about him now + that you agreed with one of his points = you would have at least contributed something to McTojo's cause before, when he was really under fire (of reasoned debate, that is). That you didn't suggests to me that you had nothing to add and/or your justification was on shaky ground (not necessarily mutually exclusive).
Still that doesn't mean you can badmouth an admin and can get away with it.Personal attacks are not tolerated.
Yes, well, one shouldn't really talk bad things about anyone, not just admins, but I agree with that all the same.
Still, this thread is provoking.
How? I admit, I have a natural aversion to arguments that use "
Still! X is [adjective]" because it doesn't really add any new points.
To whom is it provocative? McTojo was neither mentioned nor alluded to in the original post. All the OP was about was a rumored "curse" in JREF regarding the bad rep points. Eventually the discussion got around the McTojo, but that was because he had 3 bad rep points, and thus relevant to the discussion.
And finally, please review the examples I gave of what a provocative poster is, if you didn't before (or if you decided to ignore it). I thought that since you seemed so energized about provocative posters needing to be banned that you would at least have acknowledged those passages, but you didn't, which suggests, at best, denial of arguments that go against you, and at worst, hypocrisy that you would support someone who did the same things you accused the OP of doing.
I think that the amount of faith-based arguments in your post (not in the traditional sense, mind you; I mean stuff like: "But
still!", "well
I think it was okay", "You are ____" with no reasons/evidence given, etc) highlights the extent to which you can handle this discussion. You did nothing but finger-pointing, and your excited nature of your posts did not help either. Not only that, but as I've noted, since your justifications for your arguments are on shaky grounds, it lends one suspicion about hypocrisy and immaturity. For these reasons, I will be requesting Maciamo to lock this thread, with my apologies to the original poster, jack2.
Furthermore, I will be placing you on my ignore list for an as-yet undetermined length of time. I'm sure you won't mind, and I think it's for the better.
Good day.
edit: I realize this post may reek of pomposity. If anyone thinks I am saying something along the lines of "Well, I'M the one on the higher ground because I'M mature," don't worry. I know I probably have a poor EQ and I know I have a really bad IQ, but there are simply some behaviors that I just cannot stand. :sorry: