Hyde_is_my_anti-drug said:
I like the way Gackt looks, yes, but I don't demand it of him. I actually couldn't give a s**t what he looks like, it's his business. He just happens to be beautiful and I enjoy that but if he decided to change that I wouldn't care that horribly much. It's his own beezwax what he does.
Ok, well, then I guess that's where I disagree. I care for Gackt's look. I loove his music, but I still can't help looking at his pics and feel amazed by his beauty. I respect him for his music, but also for the hard effort he puts down to look like a god.
Hyde_is_my_anti-drug said:
And maybe I've way too many lesbians traits for my own good 'cause I really don't feel a pull towards wishing to be feminin in my manner of speaking or anything really.
Hyde_is_my_anti-drug said:
But that's what's sad, that women think being spoken to that way is okay. And it doesn't matter what you say women are STILL like that in the west too. We've had it drilled into us that "that's just how men are" and to just look the other way or to simply grit our teeth and bare it. And men are USED to women doing that so THEY now think it's normal and so now both women and men think it's just how it is. And that's wrong. It's wrong on so many levels.
I agree fully - it's wrong that we're being brainwashed from the moment we are born - put into categories whether we're girls or boys - boys are supposed to like blue, girls pink - meh, you know! And it goes on and on, as you say. That is terrible. Sometimes, it feels... as if it's impossible to break this 'trend'.

However, being a girl wanting to be feminine or wear pink, does NOT nescessarily have to mean that girl is a slave under the men who demanded she was like that. Femininity can be a choice, and can be as much an advantage for the girls as a bad thing. It's sexist for the guys too - they can't act feminine without being classified as 'GAY!'... meh, you know what I mean, that sort of **** makes me really tired - guys who can't look at a guy who dresses classy without calling him gay. Both ways, this difference between females and males is wrong - it's sexist both ways!
I don't wish to be particularly feminine either... it's never been my cup of tea, because I most of the time end up feeling incredibly stupid if I was to act all 'sensual-lady-like' *pictures herself doing so and laughs*
Hyde_is_my_anti-drug said:
And when did I say he was a macho-guy?? He's not. That isn't what my point is.
You didn't. DOn't worry, I brought that up myself, because I needed to state my point or.. wait.. I don't know why I brought that up!
Hyde_is_my_anti-drug said:
Am I making any sense at all? 'Cause I don't feel like I am.
You made sense. But I didn't understand the word 'beezwax'... *starts speaking in swedish*
Hyde_is_my_anti-drug said:
EDIT: And you just proved my point. People think it's TERRIBLE but the guy has to LOOK the part for it to be. But if he's pretty then it's okay. NO, IT'S NOT OKAY.
... hm... damn, you got me. But I swear, that's not exactly what I meant. I mean, if Gackt would still look like he does, but NOT work hard, and state oppinions like that, I'd get annoyed also. I mean, I didn't mean that if a guy looks like Brad Pitt, he can say anything and it's OK. What I was trying to say was - Gackt works HARD HARD for his career. Off course he's good looking without working hard, but I swear, the diets, the make up, the demands in clothing, means hard work - so what I meant was, if anyone has the rights to state oppinions like that, it's someone who's putting up with equal demands everyday... err... damn, I can't seem to make sense!

I'm trying to say, he's a slave under sexism too... or wait.. .that sounded REALLY wierd.. nevermind!

I know you said you didn't care about his looks, but I swear and promise you this; millions of others fans do. The japanese fans tend to be more obsessed about looks than the western fans, not only when it comes to Gackt...