"It Felt Like an Affair... My Heart Was Racing": Sharp Rise in Romance Scams Impersonating Korean Celebrities This Year [News23]|TBS NEWS DIG
"Romance Scams Preying on Love: A Victim's Heart-Racing Affair"|TBS NEWS DIG
Scammers are increasingly exploiting people's emotions through social media romance scams, tricking them into handing over large sums of money. Victims describe the scams as cleverly orchestrated, with one saying, "They had countless ways to make me fall in love."
"It Felt Like an Affair... My Heart Was Racing" – A Woman in Her 50s
Rie Saito (pseudonym), a woman in her 50s, shared her story, showing LINE messages exchanged with the scammer:
LINE Messages:
Scammer: "Did you really get home so quickly? I miss you."
Saito: "You must be tired, but make sure to eat a good meal."
The exchanges felt like conversations between real lovers. Despite being married, Saito admitted:
"It felt like an affair... my heart was racing."
A month later, Saito had been scammed out of 5.5 million yen.
How It Started: A Message on Social Media
In March of this year, Saito received a direct message on social media:
"I'm planning to visit Japan soon; what season do you recommend?"
They moved their conversation to LINE, where the scammer repeatedly showered Saito with compliments like, "You're beautiful and kind."
When Saito asked for a photo, the scammer sent an image of a bearded, long-faced man who claimed to be "Ji-hoon," which led her to believe he was South Korean.
Saito recalled:
"He looked cute, like a puppy. Over time, I started to fall for him."
The exchanges became intense, with over 200 messages daily.
LINE Messages:
Scammer: "If we could meet, I'd hold you and kiss you."
When Saito asked for a voice message, the scammer responded:
(In English) "Good evening. Nice to meet you. Please take care of me."
Saito said:
"It started feeling like we were real lovers. Before I knew it, he became my emotional support."
The Scam Unfolds: Cryptocurrency Investment
One day, the scammer introduced cryptocurrency trading:
"After much thought, I've decided to share my wealth of knowledge about crypto trading with you. I've never shared this with anyone before."
Despite initial doubts, Saito accessed the site he recommended, investing 50,000 yen. On-screen, her "investment" grew to over 6,000 yen in profit.
Saito reflected:
"I didn't doubt it. I thought, 'Wow, he's so smart.'"
The scammer persuaded her to invest more, promising greater returns. Alongside these discussions, he continued to fuel her romantic hopes:
LINE Messages:
Scammer: "I want to buy a house just for us in Hawaii and live there together."
Scammer: "Last night, I dreamed of living with you."
Saito agreed to meet him in Japan after making further payments, but he never showed up. She later discovered the crypto trading platform was fake. By then, she had lost 5.5 million yen.
A Growing Trend: Preying on Savings and Emotions
According to Japan's National Police Agency, romance scam damages in 2024 are 2.3 times higher than the same period in 2023, totaling approximately 34.6 billion yen, a record-breaking pace.
The majority of victims are in their 50s. Authorities warn:
"Scammers may target those in their 50s with substantial savings and fewer immediate family responsibilities."
Family Concerns: A Mother Still Believes
Kanae Oshima (pseudonym), another woman in her 50s, fell victim to a romance scam. Despite being scammed, she still trusts the scammer.
Her daughter shared:
"She thought it was really him (a famous idol). She's now seeing a psychiatrist."
The family discovered the fraud after receiving a bank notification:
"You may be a victim of fraud. Total remittance exceeds 16 million yen."
The scammer posed as a Korean pop idol, who had sent a direct message asking:
"When did you become my fan?"
Oshima responded:
"Since 2009."
Even after learning the truth, Oshima struggles to move on.
Authorities are urging vigilance and recommending video calls to verify identities in such situations.