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- 15 Aug 2003
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If I were to judge based solely on physical attractiveness, I'd say that she's not really my type...but you know the popular saying十人十色 ^^
If this attachment works, how about this woman? Personally, I think she's simply divine.
....Feminists ruined it for me in the Western Society.
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It is all gone, but to be honest, I think its up to them to decide whichever way they wish to live.
Not to mention that you can always have a nice laugh looking at some fool who just can't walk in high heels, or another that displays her orangutan belly.
Personally, it will be a formidable task to take care of myself in the world, I can only imagine how often I'd **** off to a different country if I was the "breadwinner" literally.
Whenever the thought crosses my mind, that someone could call me honey, or daddy or whatever, I feel like castrating myself. I just can't, I simply can't take the whole family atmosphere. Especially imagining something among the lines of "Honey, lets go to X's party." or "Daddy, will you help me make a campfire?" could be a very real threat to my sanity.
Now given all this, the "your space/my space" sorta model sounds ok to me. I mean, im a pretty hardcore introvert, so my social life consists currently of the short visits to the kitchen to make some food, during which I sometimes meet my flatmates.
But now that I think about that, I don't think any woman could get used to that long term, regardless of culture and race.
Whenever the thought crosses my mind, that someone could call me honey, or daddy or whatever, I feel like castrating myself. I just can't, I simply can't take the whole family atmosphere. Especially imagining something among the lines of "Honey, lets go to X's party." or "Daddy, will you help me make a campfire?" could be a very real threat to my sanity.
Now given all this, the "your space/my space" sorta model sounds ok to me. I mean, im a pretty hardcore introvert, so my social life consists currently of the short visits to the kitchen to make some food, during which I sometimes meet my flatmates.
But now that I think about that, I don't think any woman could get used to that long term, regardless of culture and race.
The so-called "Feminist Revolution" in Western Society ruined it for me. If you were part of it, you ruined it for me.
Aspects that make women attractive to me on a psychological level have been lost in most cases.
Outgoing, career-seeking, ambitious, open to everyone, flirtatious are all the opposite of features I search for in woman.
Other features such as modesty, decency and female elegance have also been lost in many cases.
Women display their bodies in a manner of being "sexy", some in completely ridiculous outfits. Real sexiness, which to me is exploration of a woman's body in an intimate fashion, all gone.
What is the point in exploring her body, when the world already knows 95% of it? Nothing special to it remains.
Whenever the thought crosses my mind, that someone could call me honey, or daddy or whatever, I feel like castrating myself.
The sooner you figure out that your problem begins and ends with YOU, the better off you'll be.
Outgoing, career-seeking, ambitious, open to everyone, flirtatious are all the opposite of features I search for in woman.
Other features such as modesty, decency and female elegance have also been lost in many cases.
If an outgoing, ambition woman isn't 'womanly' for you then what is? A meek subservient woman? A woman that doesn't voice opinions? Someone who's sole goal in life is to cook, clean and breed?
Come on, even you have to realize that idea is outdated. If it was such a great way of doing things don't you think the feminist revolution would never have taken place? The fact that it did should make it kind of obvious that something wasn't right with the system.
Someone who's sole goal in life is to cook, clean and breed?
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What was being debated was why some men choose to ONLY want Japanese/Asian women
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1. Those SOME men seem ONLY the guy who rejected your friend, at least, here.
2. Japanese/Asian women and Japanese/Asian Canadian women are quite different.
Probably it is my poor English skill about my understanding above, but I still believe the strange reason of him was just his strategy, honne-tatemae, (white) lie, or whatever.
I don't know how small community he and your friend are in, but I am 100% sure that he knows how terrible it is when he gets all women hostile to him just because he would say the true reason to reject her. And I am 120% certain that he will create another eccentric reason when his new girlfriend is not Asian one.
But even Pachipro, who was very forward and honest, still said that given the choice between an equally good looking asian or western woman he would choose the Asian woman.
It's just something I've rarely seen with other races. It is only with white people (N. Americans specifically) , really, that I've seen where they will, in a way, put their own women aside for another countries women, even if all they are attracted to is a stereotype. Of all the races I've known white people are pretty much the only ones where a large number will look at a woman of their own race and basically say, you're not good enough ... these women are much more beautiful.
Of course there is a lot of bias here because this is a forum about Japan, so I would expect the majority to favor J.women but I'm still not sure what to think of someone that says 'if two equally beautiful western and j.women were standing before me I would pick the j.woman simply because she is Japanese'.
I'm not sure I'm getting what is the big deal with J.women. Yes they are beautiful but not any more beautiful that any other women, black, white, asian, hispanic ect. I'm just not getting the 'super awesomeness' of them that other people seem to be seeing.
I don't know that seems like a pretty outlandish lie. Maybe just saying you already have a girlfriend would be easier and more realistic if your gonna lie.
Maybe it's true, maybe this friend of the OP is not very attractive. This day and age people are pretty straightforward so his statement is probably 80-100% true with other reasons adding into to why he is not interested.
No one race is more beautiful than another, that's an impossible argument, but it's not inconceivable that a person can find one physical genotype more agreeable than another. But again as I said, it's not just physicalty for me.
ooo, I think shes very pretty.