I met mine through kanjistep.com's language exchange. We've sent daily emails about each other's languages, our families, boyfriends, work and school (read: pretty much everything) since May. She's also taking an extra two days on the end of her trip to New York next month to visit Savannah, "to see more of US." In other words, I've had a very good experience with Kanjistep, so you may want to try it, also.