Mindbender80
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- 1 May 2007
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First of all thanks to all people who replyed to my post with an open mind.
Maybe my destiny on this forum is that of being misunderstanded everytime...
I never liked polemics. My intention was only that to discuss about differences of sexual fantasies beetween different countries (and in particular in Japan), not to censor japanese people's sexual habits in any way! I read my previous post and i saw i wrote terms like "morbid" that maybe made someone misunderstand my intention. Sorry for that, it was clear (to me at least), that "morbid" was intended only from my personal, human, point of view (and not as"italian"). I just can't get how a school uniform (or a half-animal creature) can excite someone. That's all!
In Italy, apparently (h**p://news2000.libero.it/noi2000/nl27.html or h**p://italiasalute.leonardo.it/benessere/sessualita.asp?id=7965 or also h**p://espresso.repubblica.it/dettaglio-archivio/165438 for ppl who understand italian) for a scientific poll the main fantasy of italian women is
being raped/having sex with a stranger. The main fantasy of italian men is making sex with 2 women (possibly with your girfriend and a female friend of your girlfriend).
A part from these chief fantasies, the other fantasies are in a decreasing order: -(females) having sex while a stranger is watching you. having sex in a surgery with a doctor. Have sex in a prison (never think of it!) .And for males, have sex in a plane; have sadomasochistic sex; have sex with a submissive girl (it is only the 17% of people in the poll, so it's not a well known fantasy here). Have "bondage" sex.
I don't care to be a rigid censor of morality. I only wanted to make a comparison. I don't want to answerr all the other things directly, but please WOULD YOU STOP to tell me that i am making generalizations and that all my thoughts are wrong just because i created them watching japanese cultural products like comics, movies etc?
I already tried to explain this point. 1) Generalizations are inevitable when you want to make comparison beetween different countries and mentality.
If you say: " life is short" or "life is funny" it's a generalization as well, nevertheless it's necessary to express an idea. Otherwise you just have to stop to talk with other human beeings. You don't have to be a slave of generalizations but they are a starting point.
2) Have you ever seen an american film (even a porno one) with a girl who tries to turn a guy on wearing a school uniform? I don't think so, or probably there are 2-3 movies on 10000000 like this in USA. But if you see a certain thing just 100 times in different mass media of another country (either if it's in Japan or in Russia) that means that kind of idea/obsession/value/whatever DO EXIST even in the deepest part of people of that country! I saw girl dressed like schoolgirl in "exciting" situations in dozens and dozens of japanese media. If you still say everything is false, maybe it's not me to have my eyes closed...
Anyway, again, thanks to all people that try to explain me this "odd" (for my own p.o.w.) japanese sexual fantasy with rational thoughts.
Maybe my destiny on this forum is that of being misunderstanded everytime...
I never liked polemics. My intention was only that to discuss about differences of sexual fantasies beetween different countries (and in particular in Japan), not to censor japanese people's sexual habits in any way! I read my previous post and i saw i wrote terms like "morbid" that maybe made someone misunderstand my intention. Sorry for that, it was clear (to me at least), that "morbid" was intended only from my personal, human, point of view (and not as"italian"). I just can't get how a school uniform (or a half-animal creature) can excite someone. That's all!
In Italy, apparently (h**p://news2000.libero.it/noi2000/nl27.html or h**p://italiasalute.leonardo.it/benessere/sessualita.asp?id=7965 or also h**p://espresso.repubblica.it/dettaglio-archivio/165438 for ppl who understand italian) for a scientific poll the main fantasy of italian women is
being raped/having sex with a stranger. The main fantasy of italian men is making sex with 2 women (possibly with your girfriend and a female friend of your girlfriend).
A part from these chief fantasies, the other fantasies are in a decreasing order: -(females) having sex while a stranger is watching you. having sex in a surgery with a doctor. Have sex in a prison (never think of it!) .And for males, have sex in a plane; have sadomasochistic sex; have sex with a submissive girl (it is only the 17% of people in the poll, so it's not a well known fantasy here). Have "bondage" sex.
I don't care to be a rigid censor of morality. I only wanted to make a comparison. I don't want to answerr all the other things directly, but please WOULD YOU STOP to tell me that i am making generalizations and that all my thoughts are wrong just because i created them watching japanese cultural products like comics, movies etc?
I already tried to explain this point. 1) Generalizations are inevitable when you want to make comparison beetween different countries and mentality.
If you say: " life is short" or "life is funny" it's a generalization as well, nevertheless it's necessary to express an idea. Otherwise you just have to stop to talk with other human beeings. You don't have to be a slave of generalizations but they are a starting point.
2) Have you ever seen an american film (even a porno one) with a girl who tries to turn a guy on wearing a school uniform? I don't think so, or probably there are 2-3 movies on 10000000 like this in USA. But if you see a certain thing just 100 times in different mass media of another country (either if it's in Japan or in Russia) that means that kind of idea/obsession/value/whatever DO EXIST even in the deepest part of people of that country! I saw girl dressed like schoolgirl in "exciting" situations in dozens and dozens of japanese media. If you still say everything is false, maybe it's not me to have my eyes closed...
Anyway, again, thanks to all people that try to explain me this "odd" (for my own p.o.w.) japanese sexual fantasy with rational thoughts.