Hello all, I've been lurking here for a while looking for an answer to my problem...
...and I just wrote a lengthy post about my current circumstance but it failed to save and post so I am rewriting this again but as a shorter version...
Basic info...
Im 30 y.o. Japanese male (parents both Japanese), born in Canada, moved to the USA 15 years ago, just got naturalized as a US citizen just recently as a Japanese citizen, since I only had a Japanese Passport (since age 21). I do not have a Canadian Passport yet. Currently living in the US.
The problem is...
I've recently got married to a Japanese women who my parents really disapproves of (long story), and they say that they will never accept her in to our family koseki tohon, (this is my first time hearing about this koseki tohon thing) and I was fine with it.
As long as my wife and I were together and since we got our marriage certificate in the US everything seemed alright, until she needed to change her last name on her Japanese Passport.
It seems like my wife needs to be registered under my family koseki, in order to change her last name to mine on the Japanese Passport... and without this change she will definitely get caught at immigration since her Passport name will not match her Green Card name which is already changed to my last name.
Since I got married despite the fact that my parents were strongly against it, I do want to respect their wish of excluding her form the family koseki, my wife doesn't mind either.
I've called the consulate about this, and they were less than willing to help me out, since they now know I have dual citizenship which is illegal in Japan. They said the only option i have is to forfeit my Japanese Passport and make her register her marriage as marring an American, which I will as a last resort. but I would be open for a way to keep my dual citizenship since I might want to live in japan in the future.
(and I will be calling a different consulate once I get all the info needed)
Are there other options to get her passport name change without changing the koseki tohon???
Ive heard I can make an independent koseki tohon which will not be connected to my family koseki tohon, is this true and how would it work? Would I have to go to japan to do this?
or can she get her marriage registered as marrying an American since I'm technically a American citizen without telling the consulate I'm Japanese? I'm sure there are nisei, sansei Japanese who have no koseki i think..
Thanks in advance!
...and I just wrote a lengthy post about my current circumstance but it failed to save and post so I am rewriting this again but as a shorter version...
Basic info...
Im 30 y.o. Japanese male (parents both Japanese), born in Canada, moved to the USA 15 years ago, just got naturalized as a US citizen just recently as a Japanese citizen, since I only had a Japanese Passport (since age 21). I do not have a Canadian Passport yet. Currently living in the US.
The problem is...
I've recently got married to a Japanese women who my parents really disapproves of (long story), and they say that they will never accept her in to our family koseki tohon, (this is my first time hearing about this koseki tohon thing) and I was fine with it.
As long as my wife and I were together and since we got our marriage certificate in the US everything seemed alright, until she needed to change her last name on her Japanese Passport.
It seems like my wife needs to be registered under my family koseki, in order to change her last name to mine on the Japanese Passport... and without this change she will definitely get caught at immigration since her Passport name will not match her Green Card name which is already changed to my last name.
Since I got married despite the fact that my parents were strongly against it, I do want to respect their wish of excluding her form the family koseki, my wife doesn't mind either.
I've called the consulate about this, and they were less than willing to help me out, since they now know I have dual citizenship which is illegal in Japan. They said the only option i have is to forfeit my Japanese Passport and make her register her marriage as marring an American, which I will as a last resort. but I would be open for a way to keep my dual citizenship since I might want to live in japan in the future.
(and I will be calling a different consulate once I get all the info needed)
Are there other options to get her passport name change without changing the koseki tohon???
Ive heard I can make an independent koseki tohon which will not be connected to my family koseki tohon, is this true and how would it work? Would I have to go to japan to do this?
or can she get her marriage registered as marrying an American since I'm technically a American citizen without telling the consulate I'm Japanese? I'm sure there are nisei, sansei Japanese who have no koseki i think..
Thanks in advance!