Japan's virgin wives turn to sex volunteers
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kirei_na_me
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I would think so too, Paul. 
And yes, CC1, you may do that. Although, I still don't think he'd get it...and he'd probably put up a better fight than a lot of Japanese guys would... ☝
The guys on this forum are great, by the way.
And yes, CC1, you may do that. Although, I still don't think he'd get it...and he'd probably put up a better fight than a lot of Japanese guys would... ☝
The guys on this forum are great, by the way.
TwistedMac
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too true.Brooker said:The question is....
What is wrong with him?
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Doc said:Then I think that speaks for about 95% of Americans today.
Perhaps. But I think deep down everyone wants a good relationship with the right person. It's just that people either get impatient or think it can't happen for them.
cicatriz esp
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This is by no means directed to any one person in this thread, but what would your average Japanese husband's reaction be if his frustrated wife brought a toy home for her own private use?
cicatriz esp
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And then they proceed to give sex and relationship advice to all the 30 year olds.Brooker said:
FireyRei
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Doc,
Yes they are. It all depends on how much you're willing to stay unhappy and settle with that unhappiness. As I said, if you can't work it out through talking, then you're basically fooked. Why torture yourself?
Life is a whole easier than people make it out to be if only they take control of their lives and stop dwelling in the sewers of depression. Make a move or die unhappy, it's simple.
Yes they are. It all depends on how much you're willing to stay unhappy and settle with that unhappiness. As I said, if you can't work it out through talking, then you're basically fooked. Why torture yourself?
Life is a whole easier than people make it out to be if only they take control of their lives and stop dwelling in the sewers of depression. Make a move or die unhappy, it's simple.
Doc
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FireyRei said:
Talking is not the only solution. A relationship is work, HARD WORK. If you're partner won't listen, you make them listen. There's several options to fix things before all is lost. If you think just trying to talk to your partner makes everythign go away, then you're too irrational and too immature to be in a relationship. There are several outlets to go with. It's when none of them work should it be time to call it a night and leave that person. Relationships are work. Not everything can be solved with talking. You make the assumption out to be that if your partner won't talk, dump them. That's a pretty lously and immature way to handle things.
You can give them space, counciling, etc. There are many different way to solve a problem. If you just give up because you're unhappy then you don't deserve to be in a relationship in the first place. Relationships have a lot of ups and downs for both parties. Not being able to handle that causes too many problems. Don't just think that once your unhappy it's over. That shows that you lack the will to be serious in a relationship.
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Maybe some of these Japanese men have an erectile disfunction? Perhaps Viagra would make a lot of money in Japan, lol.
Perhaps Viagra would make a lot of money in Japan, lol.
kirei_na_me
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Pachipro said:
Well, I've heard that my husband's boss ships it to his friends back home. ☝
DoctorP
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maybe this will help out!
viagra approved in japan
I would imagine that he ships it from the US only because it is cheaper :?
viagra approved in japan
I would imagine that he ships it from the US only because it is cheaper :?
lexico
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I find your comment interesting because during my teaching at a local language institute here, especially in the upper level conversation/writing classes, quite a few ladies were vocal about their frustrated marriages. It appeared that this English class they were taking was a way to let off steam, or a way to put their minds off the serious unhappiness of their married lives. When the children have fully grown and gone off to school, without the busyness of caring after the child, a sense of profound sadness came upon some mothers; it appeared that the affectionate relationship with thire husbands had long gone before that.FirstHousePooka said:
For the male instructors in charge of these adult classes, it was both revealing & challenging. Often times those classes vitually turned into serious group therapy where one outspoken student would become the mouthpiece for all those frustrated in marriage. At one point, after listening to enough complaints about the lady's husband, a native speaking instructor blurted out, so he told me, "You should stop criticizing you husband like that !" Naturally the lady stopped coming to class. Ahh, how funny, but how seriously so !
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