Japanese women...

[Mike Cash]

I have a website where I catalog life and I've recently started a section called Japarazzi where I get really drunk and start running up to the foreigner/Japanese couples to shoot flash photographs in their faces if I can catch them.

I can think of at least one such gaijin who will knock you a$$ over teakettle if you pull a stunt like that on him.

 

[Kinsao]

Someone tell me ghettocities is being sarcastic...... please....... ☝ ☝

Having read through this thread, everyone has already said anything I might have wanted to say.

It's called "positive discrimination".
In an ideal world, what race someone is, shouldn't matter in a relationship. Would you want someone to date you because you're a certain race? I know I wouldn't. Well, fine if you don't mind having a shallow partner who likes you mainly for a superficial reason. It's like someone wanting to date you because you've got blonde hair or big tits or a good tan or something. Unless there's something a bit more in the relationship, it's going nowhere fast.

 

[Ewok85]

I've "known" Josh on JREF for a few years, I think he was banned or something for a while, and he's definitly mellowed out alot since a few years ago, but theres still something... I don't get people who do not take responsibility for their actions and have to blame them on some else, especially God.

Personally I blame the easter bunny

 

[RockLee]

It's cool, everybody has his own opinion. So there...

 

[Mike Cash]

Someone tell me ghettocities is being sarcastic...... please.......

No, he's not.

He's been riding the "Visit Japan and Feed Your Ego with Vapid Gaijin Groupies" train for years and years.

 

[Kyoko_desu]

ghettocities san, I do believe you when you said you actually saw alot of women like that, but how much of Japan do you think you have seen? I can't help wondering how many Japanese people you personally know. Probably alot in number, but they are all the same type of people in a limited area and with same kinds of interests.

I admit those gaijin groupies exist, but they are only a small portion of the whole Japanese but it seems like you believe (or hope?) ALL the Japanese women are like them, I mean, like the ones that you hang around with in a limited area and situation. It's like peeping the J-Pop sections on this forum and believing ALL the foreign gals are into Gackt or Hyde. In fact, they are only a tiny percentage of the whole foreign teenagers and the majority of them don't care at all about J-Pop.

You think that you, a young white guy, would be able to play a pimp in all over Japan among all the Japanese women, by knowing only those gaijin groupies, but the fact is, sorry, ghettocities san, most of us wouldn't care a bit and wouldn't be interested in you at all.

I tell you, you have only seen one and limited side of Japan and you believe All of us are like them, but it's wrong. Please widen your view, look around and try see the whole Japan.

I really feel sorry for you if you have visited or stayed in Japan so many times and you have only met those kinds of women. Do you know a Japanese proverb "Rui ha tomo wo yobu."(窶氾樞?堙坂?認窶堙ｰﾅ津??堙板）? ﾂ My dictionary says it's "Birds of a feather flock together." in English.ﾂ You think you have seen alot of Japanese people but you have only seen birds of one kind.

If you wish to brag about the numbers of Japanese gf you have had,(what you call a gf, but they really are not, in my opinion.)ﾂ think about the period of time you went with each of those groupies. If you said you have dated or slept with hundreds of them, and you are now 23, that means each of those relationships you have had is really short.ﾂ I bet you have never gone with anyone for longer than a year,ﾂ because you guys are both busy with scoring and have to get a new one so soon to brag about.

You sure are using them, but you should realize that you are being used too...
And having had so many what-you-call gf's who are gaijin groupies is NOTHING to brag about. It's rather a SHAME.

 

[Ewok85]

A little off topic, but Kyoko WOW, you have some good English

Also...

I have over the past year acquired wealth beyond your belief

I have a pretty good imagination, along with a solid sense of reality. If were talking half a dozen sea-side investment properties, I might be a little impressed, but I'm not really into other material things. (In my own time I wear either my beloved jogging shorts and a tshirt with more holes than fabric, or some draggin' motorbike jeans).

 

[Mike Cash]

ghettocities san, I do believe you when you said you actually saw alot of women like that, but how much of Japan do you think you have seen? I can't help wondering how many Japanese people you personally know. Probably alot in number, but they are all the same type of people in a limited area and with same kinds of interests.

I think when the plane lands, he opens the door himself, leaps to the tarmac, and mades a mad dash to Roppongi that would have gazelles standing in awe, heads bowed, hats in their hands.

I really feel sorry for you if you have visited or stayed in Japan so many times and you have only met those kinds of women.

Misplaced sympathy. Meeting those kinds of women is his sole purpose for coming here.

You sure are using them, but you should realize that you are being used too...
And having had so many what-you-call gf's who are gaijin groupies is NOTHING to brag about. It's rather a SHAME.

In the male, biology trumps psychology. That is....as a general thing even if a guy knows he is being used, he doesn't care.

 

[ricecake]

Jokes aside the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. "Those" forums are making huge claims and sterotypical mistakes about all the Japanese women in Japan. I know more Japanese women that would never want to marry or date a "gaijin" than the ones that do.

Good clarification on MOST MISCONCEPTION of Japanese girls wanting " foreign men ",as for the TRUTH is OTHERWISE.

Majority of Japanese females or of any nationality DO LIKE THEIR OWN KIND,unless it's economic reason for those living in under-developed nations.

 

[GodEmperorLeto]

In the male, biology trumps psychology. That is....as a general thing even if a guy knows he is being used, he doesn't care.

I totally disagree. If a guy is after a relationship, and realizes he's being used, it can really bust you up inside. I've been there once, and narrowly avoided the trap twice.

By the way, despite my biology, I've had opportunities to "get used" and enjoy it, too, but these damned things called morals and that terrible conscience of mine keep getting in the way. I'd hate myself in the morning if I knowingly "got used", and thereby used her as well.

 

[Mike Cash]

How can you totally disagree with what was carefully presented as a generality? I didn't make a blanket statement.

 

[Ewok85]

Its times like this I wish I had popcorn.

 

[ghettocities]

Its times like this I wish I had popcorn.

You are lucky. All I could understand was the word "blanket."

Josh

 

[GodEmperorLeto]

How can you totally disagree with what was carefully presented as a generality? I didn't make a blanket statement.

Good point. It was around 2:30 a.m. and my brain wasn't operating on all cylenders.

 

[yukio_michael]

I love how this thread proves that people build an entire sexual-sociology out of the fact that they got laid by some girl in a love hotel.

 

[ArmandV]

I love how this thread prooves that people build an entire sexual-sociology out of the fact that they got laid by some girl in a love hotel.

Perhaps they can only go by their own experiences. Most J-women I know are professional (non-hooker, in case there's any confusion) people. They seem more career-oriented rather than fling-oriented.

 

[yukio_michael]

I wish I could spell...

 

[Orionvortex]

You know what's really funny here on this thread so far, all the posts in answering your question have been by non-Japanese males.

Why not try and find a Japanese woman and ask her opinion!

Jokes aside the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. "Those" forums are making huge claims and sterotypical mistakes about all the Japanese women in Japan. I know more Japanese women that would never want to marry or date a "gaijin" than the ones that do.

Sure there are probably some girls and women that may be obssesed, I dont know other than what a TV program or "someone" tells me, but it isn't just about white, they are many, many Japanese females that find black attractive more than white...so those message boards are pretty screwed up I would say.

ye ask and ye shall receive. Fukuoka Now did a poll a while back about Japanese girls views on Gaijin. You can find there results there results here
http://www.fukuoka-now.com/features/article_display.php?fn_code=450658
If you still need more info. then just check out my sig.

 

[ArmandV]

By the way, despite my biology, I've had opportunities to "get used" and enjoy it, too, but these damned things called morals and that terrible conscience of mine keep getting in the way. I'd hate myself in the morning if I knowingly "got used", and thereby used her as well.

Did you attend Faber College and pledged in a fraternity with the name "Pinto?"

 

[Veidit]

And the geek enters the discussion
I think I would rather like to meet a nice girl in the Akihabara district.

Ah well we are all diffrent I'm not the party person, I prefer more to stay at home or visit a nice restaurant.

 

[ricecake]

Lately, I've seen on discussions on lot of forums that claim Japanese women almost obsess over white men, even the ones that are less than average looking in Europe. Statements include "jap chicks go wild for whitey", etc.

I've also read European men label these Japanese girls as " YELLOW CABS ".Of all Oriental female species,only Japanese girls are notoriously popular ( superficially or otherwise ) among whitemen or other foreign men,for I've seen many threads dedicated to " Japanese women blah blah blah " compare to very few to none for other Asian counterparts.

There is some truth to it,but it's blown out of proportion.

We have an old saying,good news don't ever leave home and dirty laundry travels many thousand miles.

I am sure there are plenty nice Japanese girls from good family don't behave like " loose women ".

 

[osias]

I've also read European men label these Japanese girls as " YELLOW CABS ".Of all Oriental female species,only Japanese girls are notoriously popular ( superficially or otherwise ) among whitemen or other foreign men,for I've seen many threads dedicated to " Japanese women blah blah blah " compare to very few to none for other Asian counterparts.
There is some truth to it,but it's blown out of proportion.
We have an old saying,good news don't ever leave home and bad news travels one thousand miles.
I am sure there are plenty of nice Japanese ladies from good family don't behave like " loose women ".
So far,I haven't seen or met many " pretty " Japanese girls married foreign men except those American born Nikkeijins.This tells me,Japanese men keep the beautiful ones to themselves.

i wonder if this stereotype comes from porns? It's not only Europeans. When Chinese people look at Japanese women, some of them automatically think that J-women are porn actresses or something. It seems that they watch pirated Japanese videos.

 

[yukio_michael]

And the geek enters the discussion
I think I would rather like to meet a nice girl in the Akihabara district.

The optimism of this statement is almost sweet, if not a little naieve.

 

[ricecake]

i wonder if this stereotype comes from porns? It's not only Europeans. When Chinese people look at Japanese women, some of them automatically think that J-women are porn actresses or something. It seems that they watch pirated Japanese videos.

Couldn't understand as to why it's to some Japanese's dismay,these internet forum threads are typically initiated by WHITEMEN or BLACKMEN not yellow men commonly visualize Japanese girls as " play toys or natural ***** " and describe them in pornographic manners.There is one thread on JT forum with 100 countdowns on Japanese women blah blah blah,attracted some participants with " yellow men " as bystanders.

Trust me,there is NO THREAD ever dedictates to " Japanese girls blah blah blah " on yellow people-dominated forums as there is very little interest in explicite sexuality of Japanese females porn or otherewise.

 

[Veidit]

The optimism of this statement is almost sweet, if not a little naieve.

Ah correct, the statement was more that I don't like the girls that are "hunting" european/american men

At least I hope I got the right district