At this whole thread!
Well....I was married to an Black American for over 8 years, and that ended in divorce over 6 years ago. Since then, I've dated White American, White European, African, and Asian/American mixtures (one was Black American and Phillipino, and the other was American and Japanese, as explained in the other thread I started).
Look......There are differences that may be cultural as well as physical
. But overall, if you fall in like or in love with someone, it's usually because of the personality.
Because dating for fetish reasons always ends quickly as just an experience. A way to satisfy a curiousity. If a man isn't thinking about bringing me around his family or his complinents to me have something to do with my race instead of me as a person, I know why he wants me.
Just to be blunt and not dance around the issue....Size doesn't matter if you're in love. It may or may not matter if you fall out of love, and it certainly eventually doesn't matter if everything else is wrong in the relationship.
A passionate romp in the bedroom with a big sized drainage pipe might be fun for that moment, but whether or not it's true love is based upon what goes on when his pants are up and buttoned/zipped.
Plus.........Black American men are indeed romanticized somewhat abroad. So I'm sure some of these Japanese women want the experience of being with one as well as the opportunity to come to the U.S. Images that are exported of Black Americans are not always flattering, and I hate the fact that family oriented, educated, loving Black men are not portrayed at all in these images when actually that's the majority of Black American men that I know.
It's all new Hip Hop (50cent, Jigga, Snoop, Nelly, etc......). And although I love the early years of Hip Hop culture, I absolutely detest what's going on with it now commercially. I'm all about true Hip Hop and much of that is, unfortunately, underground. R&B, Blues, Jazz, and Funk are in that category as well. Only the real deal.....Not that Pop crap.
Ghettocities, you're a hater