Wow, after all the time we spend getting rid of the anti-Japanese trolls...
As everyone has said, this forum is filled with those who love Japan and many of us have some connection to Japan, too. A lot of us are married to Japanese people, are students in Japan, are working in Japan, etc.
Just like anywhere else in the world, though, Japan is not perfect. Everything has good and bad points. That's reality. If someone is considering packing up and leaving their home country to go to a country that is foreign to them, they need to know what to expect.
Anyway, hope you choose to stay and look around a bit more. I think you will find out that there are a lot of positive things that have been said about Japan on this site.