I feel so sad!

[lexico]

Oh is that so unintelligible, TwistedMax?
Why is that?Oh am I copy cat ! ? that is very interesting, please go on
(how's THAT for a J-Bot response?

Come on.
"Try it"?
Is it so unintelligible TwistedMax?
"Try it " is due to reductionism.
Alright then.
All humans seem the same to me.
Would you like to know more?
Thank you for your request.
Where is that?
I am so glad you find this amusing.

 

[TwistedMac]

you cheated you ran it through J-Bot

 

[lexico]

I confess. I saw you checking up on my IQ test thread, so I knew it was coming. But you're not going to hate me, are you ? I don't think you are capable of that emotion, (being gifted) or even if you were (meaning you are not gifted), you could make an exception, right ?
OTOH, can you honestly say you didn't cheat at least once ? The spacing was so typical of J-bot.
You could have just added the last line...not insinuating or anything...just a harmless thought.

 

[TwistedMac]

I've talked to him (and read other people talking to him) enough times to be able to emulate his spacing and the way he takes info from your post

I give you my word, I did not run it through him

Not that any of it matters if any of us did though.. this is all just harmless fun.. it's not like it should be taken seriously either way

may be a bit thoughtless of us to use this poor original poster's thread to have our little ridiculous pow-wow in though

 

[Utsuki]

may be a bit thoughtless of us to use this poor original poster's thread to have our little ridiculous pow-wow in though

It doesn't matter mate!

Well, I'm so happy to have you guys giving me support! You know, I've been crying a lot... I'm really confused with this problem and I'm glad to find all these advices very useful. I hope you all can be happy everyday!!! :haihai:

 

[Doc]

Now this one's unintelligible, TwistedMax. Do you realize that you've begun to talk like J-bot the Chatter-bot ? You copy cat !

PLEASE GOD NO!!! The last thing I need is another J-bot!!!:auch: If that ever happened I would have to pwn the chump, and I really don't feel like dealing with that again!!!:box:


Getting back on topic, I suggest you find a new penpal Utsuki.

Doc:smoke:

 

[quiet sunshine]

You know, I've been crying a lot...

:? May be you're a little crazy about your friend.
I got the following from your post:
1. You value friendship and are faithful to your promise.
2. Your Italian friend didn't keep his promise.
3. You like him a lot, he should like you a lot and can't make other friends.(seems that upseted you.)
4. You paid out a lot(energy,time, affection,etc.), he should pay back the same to you.
I think you'd better balance yourself, or find some friends who have the same definition of friendship with you.
Good luck!

 

[dreamer]

I hope you all can be happy everyday!!! :haihai:

Well I think being happy or not is purely psychological ^^'
You are happy if things please you (or if you think you are), and you won't feel happy if you feel like missing something

 

[Mycernius]

It doesn't matter mate!

Well, I'm so happy to have you guys giving me support! You know, I've been crying a lot... I'm really confused with this problem and I'm glad to find all these advices very useful. I hope you all can be happy everyday!!! :haihai:

I try to be happy everyday. Unfortuanatly with the driving on roads this doesn't work everyday. Try to be calm

 

[smoke]

Utsuki.
one way to look at it, feel free to ignore it.
your friendship has seemingly ended suddenly, this sort of shock can (and usually does) send your emotions all over the place...a strange mix of sorrow and hatred is my personal favourite. this shock can last for a while, and have no shame for shedding tears...we all have. and the logical thought of 'it's not worth crying about' doesn't ususally sit very well with the emotional pain...which i find sits low in the stomach.
now obviously this was an upsetting experience...but would you have prefered a more dragged out end to a friendship/relationship? with weeks of little communication, or worse...poor communication.
any loss of a friend hurts...some hurt is immediate, other times it is a gradual feeling of unhappiness. but i can assure you that your unhappiness will, in time, pass...but i know that doesn't mean anything at the moment. it's like people ask you 'how are you feeling?' when you are clearly feeling miserable.

hang in there...and my private message box is always open!


as for being happy everyday...if a day passes where i don't want to kill myself, or someone else...that was a good day.

 

[enix_fan]

:? May be you're a little crazy about your friend.
I got the following from your post:
1. You value friendship and are faithful to your promise.
2. Your Italian friend didn't keep his promise.
3. You like him a lot, he should like you a lot and can't make other friends.(seems that upseted you.)
4. You paid out a lot(energy,time, affection,etc.), he should pay back the same to you.
I think you'd better balance yourself, or find some friends who have the same definition of friendship with you.
Good luck!

:joyful: really agree but the more importnat thing is for your happiness seeing you're just recovering from a heartache

 

[Utsuki]

I think you guys may be angry to read this. You know, I can't bear to forsake this Italian guy to be my normal friend and I now continue to chat with him now. I thought I could just treat him as a normal friend but he keeps talking about how he likes some Asian girls, and how he wants to find one to be his girl. I tried to control myself but I feel angry. It's because I'm a Chinese girl too but he doesn't have feelings for me. And I think the only reason is my look. He must think that I'm not pretty enough (I consider myself as a normal girl too...) so he won't like me! I am so pissed actually and I know you can't ask someone to love you! ummm.....Maybe I need to be scold by you people. Kind to do the favour? But not too harsh ok? I wonder if I should really stop communicating with him but I think it's unfair to him since it's not his fault...

 

[lexico]

Maybe I need to be scold by you people. Kind to do the favour? But not too harsh ok?

Wait, let me get my leather whip ! j/k
I'm a little confused. When he says "I want and Asian girlfriend," are you sure he's not talking about you ? Did you ever find out for sure whether he has feelings for you or not ? Forgive me if I'm asking an obvious question.

 

[MajideSaiaku]

i got romantically (morninfs suck spelling wise) involved with a girl from new zealand, a girl from australia (she was a right witch now i remember) and a girl from california.

so dont worry, your not the only guy to loose his common sense and get involved with someone you might never see, lol, your quite entitled for feel bad about it, because even if the relationship wasnt, the feelings were real enough for you anyway.

and yeah i met the first one when i had an anxiety issue, so basicly i think more then not these relationships occur when someone is vulnerable.

the australian chick i met also broke it off as suddenly as yours, she just said oneday she met someone else and stuff and totaly took back any declarations of love, if anythnig i think you are yonug, and i was also young, so its just simply a folly of youth.


saying that i took a chance with my japanese pen-friend when she proclaimed her feelings, and its been over 2 years now and boyfriend and girlfriend, but my advice, is if you get caught in this trap again, make sure you feel you REALLY can trust her, also dont go looknig for these relationships, infact avoid them if possibel, and if you do get in one, try and meet as soon as possible, be honest, and show her pictures of you, its best to get that whole "what do they look like?" thing out the way as soon as possible.

 

[The AnteLyfe]

Well, maybe after you all read this, you will feel I'm really stupid but I'm just so sad now!
I've been knowing an Italian penpal and we chatted so much after we had MSN. We promise to come to chat every Saturday but after some times, I realize he doesn't like me at all and I felt so used and angry you know! I wasted so much time to chat with him, I got scold for staying up late to chat, got a bit affected with my college work, and now I got nothing at all. I even try to help him with his Chinese homework! I know it's me who plays the dumb one, but I just feel so sad! And today we didn't chat much and after a while he said he's teaching a cute Japanese girl some Italian (well, we know each other so long he didn't even teach me one word!), and after he finished the "lesson", he just said "Sorry I have to go"!!! I feel so bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think I don't want to talk to him anymore even I will lose a good foreign friend I had ever had... What do you think?

I might be castigated for saying this, but this post had me laughing in tears! I so apologize, but its true, I'm Italien and I think you use English grammar in a very "cute" (for lack of a more descriptive word) manner. Anyway if he doesn't value the time you both spend talking to eachother as much as you value it, you should understand that there are other people out there who are more deserving of your attention and it is time to move on. :sorry: :mail:

 

[Rich303]

Dear Utsuki,
It seems you were just unfortunate with your pen pal. He doesn't deserve you!
And you shouldn't feel stupid
I guess I was lucky with my Japanese penpal (I am visiting her this year).She is one of the sweetest people I've ever encountered. I wouldn't even consider treating her bad, but some people on-line have no respect.
Hold on to your dreams and don't let this fool put you off future penpals...love Rich