Frank D. White said:
There are quite a few members living in Japan(non-Japanese) , but it sounds like most of them work hard with little time off.
Nothing against the original poster, whom I wish all the best, but foreigners who live and work in Japan for an extended period of time generally tend not to hang out with recent arrivals or those of a transient nature (those who will be gone in a year or two).
Why?
Well, for the reason that we tend to be at different ages and different stages in our lives and, other than our foreignness, have very little in common. For example, I'm a 40 year old guy with a wife and two kids, working 70+ hours a week, and umpteen years in Japan have sort of taken the shine off the place for me, even though I still love it here. I know a few scattered folks similar to myself, and we get together every couple or three years. But you don't find any recently arrived early 20s single English conversation teachers in the mix. Flip the coin, and the recently arrived early 20s single English conversation teachers aren't too keen to hang out with decrepit married guys 20 years older than them either. We just have nothing in common.
That being said, living in Kiryu (Gunma) I am in physical proximity to the OP and would be glad to help him out with anything I can. Could the OP narrow his location down to something more specific than Tochigi Prefecture, please?