I overlooked this statement and would like to add a question here for you greentea, did you read this thread;
"Why do so many foreigners marry Japanese women?"
I was at Disneyland about a month ago and this American lady offered to let these 2 Japanese girls cut in line because she was going to leave,and the Japanese girls like didnt say thanks or anything,in fact they would barely even look at the lady! Its just so rude!
I think they just didn't know how to react appropriately. It may seem rude to us but you gotta put yourself in their shoes and think for a second.
You have to understand many Asian people are not as open minded as westerners when it comes to opening up themselves to outsiders (people other than their family members or close friends). Hell when I first come to North America I was scared shitless whenever I have to interact with any English speaking person (partly because I couldn't speak any English at all).
Dig a little bit deeper and you'll find out the reasons behind some of the "traits" you have observed on Japanese girls, it's not because they are just "Japanese".
Fair enough,I never looked at it that way.See whenver I see examples (like the one I told you about at Disneyland),I always assume its bcause Japanese people just dont like Americans and basically dont want to be 'bothered' by talking to them or being polite to them.I hav never looked at from the perspective that you mentioned,and you make a great point.
See,this is why I made my original post asking about how Japanese girls differ from other girls,not because "all japanese are the same" but because of little things like what you mentioned above.There are cultural differences I want to understand.Some people in ehre took it as like I am this inexperienced chump with no game.Its not that at all,Ive been with plenty of women,I just wanted to know what the respectful/polite way to approach Japanese women are,some people might think thats 'immature' and 'juvenille',personally I think that makes me more of an adult to even care.
It just seemed like in your earlier posts you were talking down to Japanese women. So a lot of the people here took offense to that, because there are always so many "AsIANS Are TEH hottest" post this forum. But I don't think we can reiterate this point enough, treat them with respect and civility, be a gentleman and take interest in what they have to say, don't be forceful. Treat them like a lady. If you treat any women like this, your as good as good.
I wonder why Asian women prefer to date blacks over whites,you never really see white guys with asian girls.Funny thing is, My girlfriend is Vietnamese and was born in Vietnam. Her three other sisters all have African American boyfriends. Ive only been to Vietnam once, so I never really got the chance to observe this phenomena, if it even is one.
On the other note, I notice a good deal of American Asians with African American males. But this isnt specifically Japanese women, so I feel as if i'm rambling now.....
I wonder why Asian women prefer to date blacks over whites,you never really see white guys with asian girls.I guess I cant really blame them,white people are generally not that attractive,I guess thats why I am white and only like asians lol
I'm loving this thread. An internet user who claims to be 27 years old -- but who is probably much younger, based upon his writing -- sharing with everyone his knowledge of Japanese women and their dating habits based upon knowledge he's attained from his tourist friend and observations at DisneyLand.
I'm pretty sure you're just trying to wind people up, but if you're as experienced with women as you say you are, you shouldn't have a problem going up and talking to one. You should also know that relationships rarely begin by random meetings at the mall. As someone else said, Japanese girls (and all girls for that matter) tend to date guys they go to school with, meet at a party, or through mutual friends.
Im honestly not trying to wind anyone up.With that said,where are some other good places (besides the ones you mentioned above) that are good to meet Japanese girls?
Japan.
Are you a college student? If so, there is probably a group of Japanese students on campus. From my experience, they tend to date guys that have an interest in Japan and the language, and hence come to Japanese student parties. (Japanese love holding parties) If you're really serious, you've got to be cool. You come across as very shallow on the forum -- I'm not criticizing you for thinking Asian women are attractive. A lot of men agree. But if you want to date one, it really helps if you get involved with their community and earn their respect first.
Honestly though without hearing them speak or talking with them I don't know what the nationalities of either member of the "couple" were and if they were a romantic couple or just friends.
I think you are right, pretty clever there greentea.I'm loving this thread. An internet user who claims to be 27 years old -- but who is probably much younger, based upon his writing -- sharing with everyone his knowledge of Japanese women and their dating habits based upon knowledge he's attained from his tourist friend and observations at DisneyLand.
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Ive been with plenty of women,I just wanted to know what the respectful/polite way to approach Japanese women are,some people might think thats 'immature' and 'juvenille',personally I think that makes me more of an adult to even care.
You know like the Japanese girls from Japan that come to America on vacation,they wont even be friendly to Americans when they are here.I was at Disneyland about a month ago and this American lady offered to let these 2 Japanese girls cut in line because she was going to leave,and the Japanese girls like didnt say thanks or anything,in fact they would barely even look at the lady! Its just so rude!
I wonder why Asian women prefer to date blacks over whites,you never really see white guys with asian girls. I guess I cant really blame them,white people are generally not that attractive,I guess thats why I am white and only like asians lol
Im honestly not trying to wind anyone up.With that said,where are some other good places (besides the ones you mentioned above) that are good to meet Japanese girls?
Again like someone else said- treat them like any other woman. Remember: woman first, then she happens to be Japanese, but they are girls just like any other one in the whole wide world.
So, have you ever met a Japanese girl or not. At the beginning you said you didn't know Japanese people and now you are insulting some random girl who you are so sure that they were i=on Vacation in Disney and came from Japan... how did you know they were Japanese??
Hold on... What?? First, what do you mean by blacks, do you mean blacks in general or are you referring to Hip-Hop style blacks (sorry to people who got offended, I just needed to clarify because many ignorants think Black=Hip-Hop). If so, every girl has different preferences.
Now, you are saying whites aren't attractive. Dude, every race has attractive and non-attractives. I don't even know what to think of what you just said...
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I stand by that,I really dont find white people attractive.If I did,I would date them and wouldnt want to only date Asians right? lol I dunno,whites in general to me are not cute.Maybe thats why I have low self esteem? I am not sure.Its just my opinion but apparently alot of Japanese girls agree with meNow, you are saying whites aren't attractive. Dude, every race has attractive and non-attractives. I don't even know what to think of what you just said...
So, have you ever met a Japanese girl or not. At the beginning you said you didn't know Japanese people and now you are insulting some random girl who you are so sure that they were i=on Vacation in Disney and came from Japan... how did you know they were Japanese??
nice.
Why are you giving me a hard time? I never said anything to you to deserve this.You simply dont like my opinion on this topic so you label me a troll.I think your being a bit harsh bro.
This has seriously deviated from the topic, its basically a flame war now. We should get back on topic or just close it.