Hmm. I'm not sure if I can say this here, but I heard the best way to get an angry woman to forgive her guy is for him to provide oral, er, "satisfaction". Damn. so gonna get bombed by moderators :-S
Oh, and in keeping with the thread, woah! Just watched "My Sassy Girl" (2001, Korea), and boy does what you guys say sound familiar.... The whole japanese girls becoming aggressive in order to get a guy, however, sounds refreshing. In the UK the guy has to do ALL the work, unless the girl is drunk or unusually forward.