Thank you for sharing, haha! I am glad you kept through and didn't quit, and oh wow, someone pregnant! She has my respect. That must've been so hard. It sounds to me that you did more experience than "preclinical" years, which is way better in my opinion when it comes to learning. I agree that hands on is better. As for the "male," nurse, haha, yes that is common, even here. I have a really good friend of mine who is from Norway who came to do medical school here at 30+ He was a nurse too and really enjoyed his job actually but just wanted to take it further. He is one of the "manliest" I know, looool. I am glad you found a super cool wife too
And, you are right when times are difficult, I will remember that I will be out there helping someone, which is really worth it to me. The reason I chose medicine is because it is universal. It has its own language. It doesn't matter if you're from China or the US; both individuals will be speaking the same language in terms of speciality and their one goal will be to take care of that patient to the best of their abilities.
As for me, I graduated high school and decided I wanted dive straight into medicine instead of doing undergraduate in the US, and then 4 years of medicine (which would be a total of 8 years + residency). I looked into options in Europe and found really nice programs that accepted students early with the right qualifications. I am actually here sponsored by the US government (even though it is loans and I will be in a hell lot of it lol). So, I would have to go back or "match," back to the US when I am finished. It is a nice system really, though. Although we are in debt, the US does its best to help us out. They even have a program where if anyone were to work in the public sector (like for example a state-funded hospital), they will wave the loans. So, I am really grateful I got this opportunity.