Falling all around and just asking to be picked up, the leaves of another year clutter our place of fun. In such dampened spirits, I nevertheless can find some clear space from which to send you my greetings from away up here on the roof of Japan.
While your post here is more of a plea than a greeting, I extend my welcome to you as you have at least made it this far. If there are any here who can be of service to your needs for information, they may come forward--no promises that there are such here...I personally do not know. Interestingly I knew of another bloke from down under who had wife problems--and who shut him out on the kids. They were here already though, so while it was hard for a while, things seem to have gotten a bit better over time.
All I can do is wish you the best for what you have cut out ahead. Good luck and fair dinkum to you !!
