Guys, this is a serious post and I require some serious advice.
I am attracted to Japanese women in a really big way. There something about their drop dead good looks, features, presentation, bodies, dress sense, accent, youthfulness and so on, they are just absolutely gorgeous. They look like sexy anime characters. At times I feel like they make other women look ugly and maybe they're too good to be true. Sure there are many ugly ones, but many of them just look the bit, even the 6/10 although they may not look perfect there's something about them that makes them doable for me, especially when their faces are compensated by buxom bodies.
Here in the uk I had many girlfriend most of whom were the cream of the crop, I don't mean to sound big headed forgive me for this, but I am a good looking guy, bit of a bad boy look and usually really picky with girls. Even from the cream of the crop, rarely do I feel like I want to marry these girls(I have rare taste). However at the now age of 33(although I look 26) I had decided my bad boy days are over, wanted to turn over a leaf and get with one women. Not many Japanese women where I live however now I have been seeing them here and there and it's making me a very excited bad boy again.
I just saw one in the bank and tried to get her number, whenever I see a fit one I just go and chat them up largely because they are so much more attractive then most other girls. Obviously I'm just using them for fun as I there no way I will marry dozens of women, its just fun. I don't think this is a good thing and something I want to overcome.
Anyway if I ever where to got o japan, unlike the uk, I'm pretty sure I could find a nice Japanese girl to marry since there are many attractive women to pick from to my liking, however my concern is that if I set foot in japan it will make me into a player, something that I have been wanting to get away from. I see less j girls here and its already causing a big relapse.
My question, especially to the guys who've been to japan and who have similar feelings, how do you control yourself/should I control myself? I don't want to be pursuing every fit girl although I'm sure I could have many, I am 33 and want to settle. Is this(attraction) something that is only temporary and will eventually wear off? I saw a guy on youtube who was saying that if you're into j girls when you come to japan you will feel like you died and went to heaven. I'm worried this might be true, how then does a guy like me go to japan and control myself and stop myself from jumping into the pants of all the women I find attractive? I know it comes down to self control and willpower etc however I want to know more in the following context: in the uk I can usually get by without staring at women(theres not many fit women here) however in japan I will struggle not to stare because there is just so many desirable/wifeable girls.
Serious post, hope you can advise me , Im my head I really just want to marry a good hot women but then there's my other head...
I am attracted to Japanese women in a really big way. There something about their drop dead good looks, features, presentation, bodies, dress sense, accent, youthfulness and so on, they are just absolutely gorgeous. They look like sexy anime characters. At times I feel like they make other women look ugly and maybe they're too good to be true. Sure there are many ugly ones, but many of them just look the bit, even the 6/10 although they may not look perfect there's something about them that makes them doable for me, especially when their faces are compensated by buxom bodies.
Here in the uk I had many girlfriend most of whom were the cream of the crop, I don't mean to sound big headed forgive me for this, but I am a good looking guy, bit of a bad boy look and usually really picky with girls. Even from the cream of the crop, rarely do I feel like I want to marry these girls(I have rare taste). However at the now age of 33(although I look 26) I had decided my bad boy days are over, wanted to turn over a leaf and get with one women. Not many Japanese women where I live however now I have been seeing them here and there and it's making me a very excited bad boy again.
I just saw one in the bank and tried to get her number, whenever I see a fit one I just go and chat them up largely because they are so much more attractive then most other girls. Obviously I'm just using them for fun as I there no way I will marry dozens of women, its just fun. I don't think this is a good thing and something I want to overcome.
Anyway if I ever where to got o japan, unlike the uk, I'm pretty sure I could find a nice Japanese girl to marry since there are many attractive women to pick from to my liking, however my concern is that if I set foot in japan it will make me into a player, something that I have been wanting to get away from. I see less j girls here and its already causing a big relapse.
My question, especially to the guys who've been to japan and who have similar feelings, how do you control yourself/should I control myself? I don't want to be pursuing every fit girl although I'm sure I could have many, I am 33 and want to settle. Is this(attraction) something that is only temporary and will eventually wear off? I saw a guy on youtube who was saying that if you're into j girls when you come to japan you will feel like you died and went to heaven. I'm worried this might be true, how then does a guy like me go to japan and control myself and stop myself from jumping into the pants of all the women I find attractive? I know it comes down to self control and willpower etc however I want to know more in the following context: in the uk I can usually get by without staring at women(theres not many fit women here) however in japan I will struggle not to stare because there is just so many desirable/wifeable girls.
Serious post, hope you can advise me , Im my head I really just want to marry a good hot women but then there's my other head...
