girl friend blues

[Elizabeth]

You know what? Be a man. Don't become a couple so sudden and fall into these girly traps. Just get to know each other and do stuff, like friends (but I don't really like putting it like that. heh.) Do stuff with other girls too. Make her jealous and she'll want you more. If she wants to be your girlfriend, don't let it happen. Become a couple only when you like the way she is, which cannot happen that suddenly.

Keiichi

I agree completely. The most important thing is to have confidence in yourself and your own way of doing things whether you have a girlfriend or not. Real women will be much more attracted to that than a guy who appears needy or unsure (are you my g/f or not...let's get that in writing....). Don't consider turning a relationship romantic until you've had enough experience with this friend to know they are also mature enough to handle it.

Good luck !