Get Used To It!
Goldiegirl said:
My in-laws kept trying to reassure me by saying that you just never know when it's your time, just live your life. How? How do you get past that.
For those who have never experienced an earthquake, it can be a mind numbing and traumatic experience.
Well, Goldiegirl, you are living in and come from Wisconsin right? What about a tornado? What if you were caught on a highway or in a mall or out in the open when one hit? You may be killed or you might survive. What if, in the winter, a blizzard hit in Wisconsin and a car swerved out of control and smashed into your car head on or hit you while walking? It can happen as much as being killed in an earthquake.
You never know when your time will come and it's best not to think about it or it will drive you crazy. When I was living in Japan in the 80's a 7.2 hit the Yokohama area and I was teaching on the first floor of my 5 room "mansion" (condo) of five floors. I thought for sure "this was it" as the shaking was so severe. We all went under the desks and there was no damage.
Imagine teaching English to a group of bankers on the 10th floor of a skyscraper and, while you are teaching, you are facing the window and the skyline of Tokyo. Suddenly, you feel nothing, but as you look out the window you see the skyline swerving severely from side to side! If that doesn't scare the hell out of you and make you leave Japan nothing will. It's just something you learn to live with.
As bakaKandajin said above, the earthquake proofing in Japan is among the best in the world and you will probably survive a major quake as Uncle Frank also mentioned.
I survived many a quake during my 16 yrs in Japan and took it as a way of life. Soon you get used to it and don't even give it a second thought. However, it is always in the back of your mind when you feel the earth shake. "Is this the big one?", you think. It will always be there and never leave you.
You just have to learn to accept it because you could return to your "safe" home of Wisconsin one day and be killed by a drunk driver or someone who decides to mug you in broad daylight. Does that make you fear going out to the movies, the mall or a restaurant? Probably not. You should feel the same way about Japan her earthquakes.
As your in-laws tried to tell you, "when it's your time, it's your time" no matter where you are. I firmly believe in that philosophy.
Good luck and don't think about it!