Coshh, yeah, a lot of people seem to be complaining about the fans. Many of them have good stuff to say, but after a while it just gets ridiculous. Of course, if you're a fan you would like to see the band in person, and be upset if some people got to who weren't supposed to... but some people call them complaining idiots. Retelling your story with enthusiasm isn't necessarily made-up sick fantasies about getting it on with a certain bandmember... it could just mean reliving the absolutely amazing experience of your first concert ever... like me. (I felt so lucky to be there. It's an experience I'll never forget.) *cough* Moving on...
I think people are just using extreme examples to overgeneralize all fans. I believe there is a respectful 'silent majority' out there, that just don't bother to post their thoughts online. Sure, there are the scum who battle over who knew them first and how long they were fans, who write nasty yaoi fanfiction about them, who lust after the poor boys and spin disgusting stories, etc etc etc. But not all fans are like that. Just because fans might comment on how nice the band looks doesn't mean they're automatically horny fangirls in for the band's bodies, and just because fans ARE talking about their OWN experiences at the concert and their great vantage spot in the venue doesn't mean they're jealously comparing who had the better show. There are lots of aspects of being a fan... music being the main but not the only.
Bands aren't anything without their fans. Well, alright, they could be indies or garage bands without fans... but they certainly would not be what they are today, and come so far musically and personally. There are bad fans and the good. Most people at some point may have been a shallow fangirl/boy but caught themselves and have now grown and matured. Very likely yourself. Don't think you're above the rest... we're not perfect and we're quite capable of that. But we can change.
So just chill people... not everyone is out to rape the band, y'know. Some fans might be upset that they didn't get to go, and complaining about bad fans makes them feel better. But that doesn't help anything, in fact it worsens the hopes to restore the greatness of this Dir en grey thread everyone keeps saying has deteriorated.
[/end of speech] Sorry it's so long... I just had to get that out. And I don't mean to stab at anybody... I'm just sick of the fan-bashing. Happy thoughts, fellow Dir en grey fans.