GoldCoinLover said:
My mom just said to me right now "Stay away from those people. They are terrible." (referring to this forum)
And I agree.
Instead of boasting about that I don't know my own language, why don't you explain the concepts?
GCL, we are not happy and bubbly all the time, but you should not leave the forum because of that. That is life.
People will not always be nice to you. People will at times be very mean to you. This is true no matter where you go. Yes, even in Japan.
You are 18 now, am I not mistaken? It's time for you to start truly preparing yourself for life in the "real world" out on your own. It is not always pretty, but that is life.
The people on this forum have been very nice to you. And yes, they have at times gotten frustrated with you and said less than happy things to you. But they do it because they care. The action of someone who does not care is to either ignore you or just insult you without trying to be helpful in any way, shape, or form.
Your mother, bless her heart, is trying to protect you, but she will not be able to do that forever. You have to make yourself stronger mentally, and perhaps physically, so you will someday be able to take care of yourself when she can no longer do so for you.
This is why I said earlier that you have to stop making excuses for yourself and keep going. NOBODY likes to hear excuses. In Japan, culturally, excuses are very very bad.
Stay with us and train yourself mentally, Kevin. This is a good starting spot, because you can always leave and take a break from us for a moment when we're annoying. You do not always get this luxury in real life.