You're definitely not a "bother". Take The advices you've received in this thread as honest responses to your problems regarding japanese, comprehending its grammar is so fundamental to the understanding of the language that sometimes if you cant get a grasp on it, no ammount of translations will help enlight your mind. Also when we ask for your input on the question, we dont want to judge how much you know(sometimes though, a judgement is needed like when Mike realized you did rush the content ) but, we wish to make sure that you are making your efforts too, so that teaching you is something worth doing because you have at least made an attempt.