O.k. I took the test put out by the Pease's, in their book 'why women can't read maps, and men don't listen' and say that I fell in just below the overlap zone (so my brain is wired with a fair degree of femininity) but am otherwise male, up and down, inside and out. I also think gender is a very interesting topic, and very needed topic, and a topic that needs honesty, openess, and truthfulness brought out more. Women still have it unnecessarily hard in our 'clinging-to-old-cultural-norms-too-much world.