Japanese guys and black women?

[Skullcrushergurl]

I wonder.... what do Japanese guys think about black women
relationship-wise?
Not the scary intimidating ones that dance in rap videos and hang out with the gangsters.....
What are the views on Japanese-black relationships in general?
I love Japanese/asian guys but they never look my way. Is it just me?

 

[SushiShin]

hey good question this is not very common!

 

[ArmandV]

I wonder.... what do Japanese guys think about black women
relationship-wise?
Not the scary intimidating ones that dance in rap videos and hang out with the gangsters.....
What are the views on Japanese-black relationships in general?
I love Japanese/asian guys but they never look my way. Is it just me?

Maybe if we knew what you look like we can tell you.

 

[Skullcrushergurl]

 

[ArmandV]

You don't look threatening. Maybe it's your age?

 

[Grandpa Frank]

Maybe.....?

.......your overwhelming beauty scares them away? They might just be shy, chase them down girl!

Uncle Frank

 

[Skullcrushergurl]

Lol I'm 16 but most people say I look older....
Thanks Uncle Frank!

 

[ArmandV]

Lol I'm 16 but most people say I look older....
Thanks Uncle Frank!

You're still considered a minor. Why the rush? You have two years before you are legally an adult.

 

[Mars Man]

skullcrushergurl san !! Your looks are the kind that turn me on !! I think you have no problem there whatsoever !! Now I would suggest that you not go around telling them that your nickname is 'skullcrushergurl'. . .that might scare them off. hee, hee, hee....

Seriously, though, you are young. Work on your knowledge of things Japanese. Keep yourself focused on learning and growing in the direction that you heart tells you to. Don't let set-backs get the best of you. . . you have to get up and try again...remember that scene in The Last Samural, when the captive had been playing with the little boy in the rain, and the one kind of 'hardboiled' samura came and laid him low...and he got back up, and took a stand. Then, that samurai laid him low again, but, he got right back up again, and again...until he actually couldn't !! PLEASE !! Take that attitude !! AND DON'T RUSH !!! (that's what I tell all these cute female students I teach over here....{and the guys too, but the females seem to more often be 'marry-bent'}) MM

 

[epigene]

.......your overwhelming beauty scares them away? They might just be shy, chase them down girl!
Uncle Frank

Although I rarely see Japanese men with black women walking the streets here in Japan, I've seen happily married couples on TV, so it must depend on the guy.

I agree with Frank, size up the guys, and make the first move!!

 

[Damicci]

I would say Japanese men can be less likely to date foreign women, and if they do most likely will be white. This is just based on a conversation I have had with a few of my male Japanese friends. They all would like to date foreign women mostly interested in white females though. But none of them was interested in marrying a foreign woman. I am generalizing but it seems to be that way. You also have to remember alot of info on foreign comes from tv and internet. My suggestion would just make sure they see who you are and if they find interest in that then you should be gold....er bronze....

 

[Skullcrushergurl]

It's funny how people stopped posting on this thread so quickly but "Japanese girls & white guys - white girls & japanese guys" has at least 5 pages....
:auch:

 

[jmwintenn]

that thread started in 03...someone just revived it. Though the racism undertone was amusing.


If you want a japanese man,go get one. It's pretty simple, guys don't always have to do the chasing

 

[Mars Man]

Hey skullcrushergurl san !! Though I can understand your emotion, I would suggest (along with the fact that the other theads did stand a long time) that most of what could be said about, shall we say 'inter-racial' relationships, has alread been said.

Now to what degree there is actually something we could call 'race,' is a whole debate in and of itself. Anyway, let's see, and over time we might get some new information here. (for opinions on the inter-racial relationship/lovers/marriage thing, it would be good enough to read on the other threads rather than expect the same ideas to be presented again here.

Thanks ! and I'm sure there's a man out there waiting for you !! MM

 

[Swordmaster]

Hm... this isn't the exact situation, but it is similar. It just so happens that my father is pure Japanese and my mother is a combination of English, Irish, Scotish, Portuguese, French, and Guianese (she's 1/2 black and 1/2 white). As it would happen, they've lived happily so far without problems.

In my personal opinion (for how much it is worth), it depends on the guy and his preferences.

 

[Skullcrushergurl]

hmph. That's all?

 

[Swordmaster]

Yes, that's all, there's not much to it.

 

[SushiShin]

What are you all saying??

Noooooo, i can't believe what im reading here.

okay to begin, Skullcrushergurl is a very nice girl and if she really wants a japanese boyfriend, then i would say she is different from other (forgive me for using these words) black girls.

Most black girls hate asian people (to them we are all chinese (_ _') ) .

And i think if lived in your neighbourhood Skullcrushergurl i won't hesitate to meet you.
What about black men and japanese women? this wasn't the choice of the girl, this was the choice of the man, (but mostly after some years the black guys leave they're women to find another one, not everyone does this, but really here they do stuff like this)

Back to topic, Japanese men and Black Women? Why not? Is a white girl different then a black girl? In my humble opinion girls are girls and they are all worth the same! Come on guys, what should we men do without girls on earth?

To Skullcrushergurl: Do you have other genuine japanese men lined up for you?

 

[Goldiegirl]

I don't think this is all about race. For one thing just exactly how many Japanese men are outside of Japan....I mean there are Americans who heritage is Japanese, so are you looking for Japanese heritage or an actual Japanese man from Japan? Also, can you speak Japanese, are you planning on going to Japan? How are you planning on meeting a Japanese man in Michigan? There are just so many variables. Personally I think most men like most women, they can't help themselves; it must be the testosterone!

 

[Swordmaster]

Shin, a girl is a girl. People have preferences depending on a slew of variables. It's not really right to say "Black people do so and so and White people do this stuff while Asians are whatever." Stereotyping much? Everyones different so don't make overgeneralizing statements, regardless of the evidence.

Goldie, yep, some guys do like the girls who can't help themselves (I know quite a few); though... there are other who love the independent women (I also know quite a few guys with that preference). However, there are guys who prefer girls who have a fair (and slightly fragile appearance) but are completely independent. Yep, humans are odd creatures.

(Personally, I have a pretty specific preference, BUT note that preferences aren't limits or borders.)

 

[Skullcrushergurl]

Hm. Well I also wonder that, when I go to Japan, will they accept me and will the guys like me? Shin was suprised by my interests so whos to say that when I go to Japan they won't talk to me because they think I'm ignorant? Argg!
I do have my own preference though: I don't date black guys at all.

 

[SushiShin]

You see, she doesn't date black guys wich means she is different from the rest, her interest lies in that of japanese men and white men.

Why should japanese men not have interest in you?
because you have a different colour?
no, there are some who would say: i prefer a japanese girl then a black girl.

but i'm sure there are also : who say hey, time for a change, she looks very outgoing and nice let's see what it will be.

Like i said, if i lived in Michigan then i really would be honoured to meet you since there aren't black girls who shows more interested in another culture and roots then from theirselves. (with other words, she prefers more japanese culture then other).

To be honest skullcrushergurl we aren't that quite different from each other, we both seek something, a small measure of peace, but we can't have them at the moment we like, but we have the guts to continue and to fight for the thing we want.

Like i said you are a girl and you aren't different from any other girl no matter colour you have no matter what you speak.

One thing is sure, i think you are a very good friend to talk with.

 

[Skullcrushergurl]

Awww!! Shin!!
Well, I like a few other types of guys too.

 

[SushiShin]

Haha, i know.

and about my post it's no big deal, i really mean it, you are funny and a cool person to have as a chatbuddy!

 

[Goldiegirl]

I don't think you should single out or disregard people as potential friends, boyfriends, girlfriends based on the color of their skin. The perfect person that would make you happy for a lifetime could be standing right in front of you, but if you dismiss them based on their color you have lost. Lost everything if you ask me. It's hard enough to find the right person, and the more conditions you place on them the harder you make the journey. May I ask you Skullcrushergurl, would you be hurt or offended if myself or others chose to like or not like you based on the color of your skin?