Does anyone know of a place here that blends the two together without being overly commercialized.
I've so far visited Osaka, Tokyo, Kyoto, Kobe and Hiroshima. Not a long list but a good amount of large and large-ish cities. I'd say that, so far, Hiroshima was the most beautiful in my eyes. I don't know why specifically but I think it was a combination of the city life combined with the gentle spirit of the people there. A good mix of tradition, culture and development.
Everyone there in the stores and shops and also in the country side as you move outwards a bit, is very kind. They still exhibit what in my limited experience is the traditional Japanese spirit and way of life, that polite, hard-working ethic that the Japanese are known for. A hearty 'ohayo' in the morning, 'konichiha' in the afternoon, very little of that jaded Tokyo feel. I know Hiroshima isn't the only place like this of course but again, this has been my limited experience.
Culturally Miyajima island is probably the richest location in Hiroshima. The shrines, buildings, way of life, manjuu bakeries, deer walking around freely, its all there. Also, who can forget Peace Park and the tragic history of Hiroshima..
On a lighter note, Hiroshima style okonomiyaki is everywhere, tabenasai