Some things I notice after almost 5 years here.
I'm amazed how many members join and never return. I wish all those Japanese people who read the JREF forum would stop and join. Like many new members, when I first came to JREF, I thought almost all the members would be Japanese(NOT). A forum seems to be a place to "take" but not give. Most people come here to get their answer to some question and never return. The "SEARCH" function does not get used enough , especially by new members. If you stay around long enough here, you see the same questions asked over and over and over. Some members are very "Territorial" they post over and over one one thread and no where else. I think in todays busy world, finding time to come on the forum everyday is difficult, so it is hard to maintain a "core family" of close friends. In the "old days" of JREF there were a large group who met in the chat room often and became good friends, that seemed to fade away(the chat room is hardly ever used now). I notice the "friendliness" level has dropped off. New members intros used to be answered with dozens of welcomes, now none or just 1 or 2. Birthdays wishes have gone the same way; used to be dozens wishing a member a happy birthday, now you are lucky to get 2 or 3 good wishes. I believe forums are like people, they change over time and their main focus changes. At times we have had threads here that focused on Japanese history, language, J-Rock, religion, and other times vague chit-chat posts tend to rule. I feel it is hard for forum owners and staff to control what happens on a forum, it tends to ebb and flow with a life of it's own. Just some personal thoughts of my own and not anyone elses. I look at JREF as my main hobby and try to devote a lot of time to it, it pays me back with many friends from around the world and a lot of joy in my life.
Uncle Frank
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