A close friend? If so and you don't want to break the bank, around 30,000 yen should do just fine. If you are really close chums, try for 50,000 yen.
The number 4 is to be avoided (as in 40,000) you can give 10,000 yen if things are tight, but I am sure your friend will be thrilled with anything you can give.
You know about the envelope thing for giving money at weddings, right?