That may be the rule of that particular place, but not of all geisha houses. Or what she means is that it is forbidden within the house's premises, but outside they are free to do what they want.
Sometimes at parties I meet some really good looking men but I'm there to work so what can I do? I'm not allowed to give my telephone number.
That would be totally different from what I have heard from friends who work as geishas in Tokyo's Mukojima district. That is also is sharp contrast to hostess bars, where not only do hostesses usually give their phone numbers, and often go out to restaurants, karaoke or even trips with their customers outside working hours, so as to make them come back (hostesses get bonuses for returning customers calling them). After all, geisha is just a form of (upmarket) hosting.
How is the geisha's speech pattern different from regular Japanese? Is is a subset of standard Japanese, or do they depart drastically from standard Japanese?
Tamae said:
I'm not the type to have a successful marriage. I'm the type to serve men, not the type to tell them off.
Why is it that when life was shorter, women were more eager to have children?
With fewer women available, perhaps more men could enjoy the quiet and calm of celibacy.
I think that their wives send their husbands because they know what is going on - some of them have been to our parties so they know it's kind of safe.
They know he's not going to have any relationship with us.
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