I am happy to meet you again, uncle sam LoL... ( just a joking with you)
Yes, actually learning Japanese and Chinese languages is very hard, though I have not stepped into the class yet.
Although, I am very interested to learn one of these two languages, but my problem is that I am not patient enough to spend a long time for such purpose. In fact, I am not a good studious person to be able to memorize complicated things. I mostly love to learn things transiently and fast, out of academy, this is because I have not learned English completely yet, after six years!
I am approximately an intelligent person, but my failure is that I don't like to spend a lot of my time for memorization, this is because I didn't go to university earlier. I mostly like free studying to understand things, but the fault of this manner is that I don't memorize names, numbers and details as they should be memorized. Of course it is not a good manner and is unlike the manner of the wiser persons who use their complete memory and attention to memorize everything in detail , but I mostly follow my interest in such type of studying, instead following the fundamental manner of educating.
You told, you examined learning some other languages in addition to the Japanese. Why you didn't try to learn Chinese either?