helpful perhaps

[Anjeko]

i was quite astonished the other day when i read that there is actually peoples i japan that are interested in learning to speak xulu.
i was like: what the hell for ever?
so keeping in mind that there is peoples with very strange needs(like wanting to speak xulu) i speak afrikaans, those of yous who know what it is & are interested to learn or just converse, i help for free.

then i have a question: is it in your countries too, that guys are only interested in girls if they wana date ect...?
here in rsa it seems like the guys have a common agreement amongst themselves that if one (girl) is not interested in a relationship then there will be a no friendship!Done!!

njoy your weekend everyone!
love ya, take care,&may the beats be with ya!

 

[lonesoullost3]

Well, this should be moved to a different section (chit-chat?). But for the question, I think it's very strange (on the verge of absurd?) that a guy won't be a friend with a girl if there's no hope of relationship. I think many times a relationship can sprout out of a "getting-to-know-you" friendship where you haven't quite reached the stage of relationship. It seems that if you rule out friendship, then you don't give yourself much room to judge the other person and base your assumptions primarily on looks and second hand information.

 

[Mars Man]

Good morning there Anjeko !! Hope you're with the rythym of nature today, as she warms up the drums of life in my heart. I don't know if you are a new comer or not--I am still very new here, and I am glad to meet you. Are you into music?

Culture is the key, perhaps, or mannerisms of national groups--there's a whole bunch of them in the world.

 

[lexico]

The Classical Ice-breaker; remember Harry & Sally ?

Welcome to the forum, Anjecko !

What fine suggestestions you have; they all look like great gifts you bore to this fascinating forum-- I think it will indeed benefit greatly from all the fine gifts you bore us on this lovely Sunday...or was it Saturday ? Well, then, this lovely Saturday. I enjoyed this weekend for highly personal reasons such as... but it hadn't expected it had so much more in store for me.

I had the honor of serving in a school with one of the finest gentlemen I've met; he was from RSA, and we taught the same classes for one great yr of teaching !

Briefly on your questions: as for female friends, I agree with both Sally and Harry ! But what was their conclusion ?

As for the Xulu students you mentioned, did you also know there are also numerous Japanese studying Ainu, Basque, Chukchi, Djingili, Evwn, Farsi, Gaelic, Hausa, Iroqois, Jaqaru, Kalabari, Logba, Mixtec, Nivx, Ojibwa, Piraha, Quechua, Romany, Swahili, Tlingit, Ubykh, Venda, Welsh, Xhosa, Yoruba, and Zuni that are typically known to be impossible to learn ? (Please forgive my little hyperbole ;-))

It's nice to have you here, and wish you a lovely Sunday afternoon.

 

[Anjeko]

oh well i got a change to ask a guy this question the past weekend, his response was a mere: we see somebody that we want to get intimate with now, not in the future,or after we got to know them, so basically it comes down to they look @ the outside person, & can't care any less about what is inside. a lousy bunch, i guess. i hope peoples in other countries thinks differently!

oh and sorry for posting in the wrong space, will try not to do it again ok, forgive me please.

what music do you like mars man? i go crazy for house and dance ect.
the beating / pounding sounds that leaves one breathless and feeling very warm inside! oohlala, the euphoric feeling, u know?

all those languages very interesting, can't even pronounce all of them, why are you so clued up lexico?

take care!