MajideSaiaku
tsuyaku o tsukete kudasai
- 19 Jan 2005
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For those of you with Japanese ex's, how in holy hell do you forget them?.
On a few occasions I have given in to my weakness and emailed my Ex, we were fighting pretty bad in the end and the relationship obviously had no positive conclusion so I had to break it off, but the problem is she hasn't forgotten me and try as I might theres that part of me that just wont let go...
The 3 months following up to the break-up were pretty messed up, my state of mind was all over the place, and even now, after the break-up in January, I'm still not feeling my normal self.
The problem is I remember the good times quite a bit, and the problem is along with her ability to pick me apart, and my feelings for her, I got to this stupid stage where I felt like she basically defined my existence, where she was my future and stuff, and I guess somehow all that insulting my life somehow made me feel I was somehow lower or lesser without her.
How do you guys go about just forgetting that one bad relationship that you got heavily invested in, how do you get to that point where your confident and fine with life after a relationship, where you can imagine a future and just get on with life as you would normally?.
Cheers for input and your experiences.
Nuri
On a few occasions I have given in to my weakness and emailed my Ex, we were fighting pretty bad in the end and the relationship obviously had no positive conclusion so I had to break it off, but the problem is she hasn't forgotten me and try as I might theres that part of me that just wont let go...
The 3 months following up to the break-up were pretty messed up, my state of mind was all over the place, and even now, after the break-up in January, I'm still not feeling my normal self.
The problem is I remember the good times quite a bit, and the problem is along with her ability to pick me apart, and my feelings for her, I got to this stupid stage where I felt like she basically defined my existence, where she was my future and stuff, and I guess somehow all that insulting my life somehow made me feel I was somehow lower or lesser without her.
How do you guys go about just forgetting that one bad relationship that you got heavily invested in, how do you get to that point where your confident and fine with life after a relationship, where you can imagine a future and just get on with life as you would normally?.
Cheers for input and your experiences.
Nuri