Well thanks for atleast trying to help okaeri_man, that is a better idea I need to save as much money as I can, but our main problem is not knowing a way to stay there, because me and my friend plan on staying for a couple months, but we have no way of staying there that is affordable, i wish i knew someone who lives there, our best bet (this is a crazy idea i came up with lol) is that we are going to rent an apartment when we get there but that is still going to be alot of money but it is cheaper than a hotel (600,000 yen a month.. crazy !!) we still have a good amount of time before we are going so we can keep brainstorming ways ofcourse, but if anyone has any ideas or suggestions please tell me them, i am desperate, I would like to find a host family, but I dont know how to go about doing that... please if anyone has any ideas tell me !!