I know, I know, its an old post, sorry, but it was interesting to me.... how did I miss it??
I have a friend in Seoul, who was in NZ during the time he was supposed to do military service, then his wife got pregnant, and he had to come back to Korea, when he went back to NZ they wouldnt allow him back into the country because Korea demanded that he come back to do his military service. He still hasnt done it 3 years later, and isnt allowed to leave Korea until he does. What makes this a bit strange to me, is that his father was actually a translator for the US army....
I have another friend avoiding military service by becoming a doctor. Apparently though they still have to be stationed in some out of the way town for the equivalent length of time that they would normally be doing military, and work for free as a doctor. Something like that...
Then I have known Koreans that have stayed away from Korea for more than 10 years, and their parents dont want them to go back for military service.
I have heard, but one of the koreans will have to confirm this for me, that if the mother has voluntarily done military service (its only compulsory for the men) that if she has a son, he doesnt have to do military service. Is this true? Of course if your mother is tough enough to do military service, it might be a bit shameful to avoid it.
On the other hand about the studying.... I know so many kids in Korea that go to school every day, then they will finish around 3 or 4 and go to a Hagwon (learning institute) for 3-4 hours either studying english, or perhaps getting extra tutorial in one of their subjects that they are not exceeding in, after that some might go to a musical or sports lesson. Its not strange to see kids still walking around in their school uniforms at 11pm.
One of my students goes to bed at 2am every morning, and wakes up again at 7am to do it all over again. She is exhausted when it comes to her saturday classes, but her grades are exceptionally high.
Then when it comes to holiday time, they dont get to relax and hang out with their friends, instead they are shipped off to English camps, or homestays in another country! In the long run, it is producing highly intelligent people, but I just feel sorry for them, it seems like they miss out on their childhood.
Anyway thats my two cents worth... how much extra schooling are kids in Japan expected to do? The fact that kids in Japan and Korea and other countries are expected to go to school on saturdays is enough in my opinion!