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<1-whiche one to started to learn ,>
1. Start learning Katakana and Hiragana together, but be able to know which is which without having to think about it. I recommend flashcards and repeated usage. Saying the syllables out loud while writing helps greatly.
<2-and what words do you writing now , because when I read Japanese sentences I see katana and kanji both in one sentence...>
2. Most if not all serious Japanese sentences are a mixture of Hiragana and Kanji. Katakana is used when necessary for the phonetical spelling of foreign words.
<3-if I learning only katana and hiragana without kanji its that enough
to learn Japanese ,or do I have to study all ?>
3. Kanji is essential, but very tedious to learn. There are no shortcuts. It is a labour of love. Once you learn a few hundred Kanji, you will know how much easier it can make reading and writing. The best way to learn Kanji is by writing them properly and saying the readings out loud. Everyday review and usage is key to engraining them into your brain. I'd recommend memorizing a few a week, but remember, don't overdo yourself and be consistent in your study or don't study at all. Kanji are beautiful, develop a love for them, and your mind will never forget them.
<4-in japan now what all people like writing now : katana, hiragana or kanji to connect with other people ???>
4. You will see all three. There is a minimum of 1945 Kanji (called 常用漢字 or Jouyou Kanji)that one should learn to live in Japan and read Japanese. Yes, this is a good amount of Kanji. But I hope you're not in a hurry *smile*
And some additional tips:
-Avoid Romaji like the plague. Enough said.
-There is nothing worth learning that doesn't take time.
-Listen to some Japanese music. It's not a great way to learn, but it will tune your ears. I would guess Manga & Anime might help, but I never liked Anime, so I never tried.
-Learn the proper way to pronounce " ra ri ru re ro ". Avoid "la li lu le lo"
-If you're not learning Kanji, start learning vocabulary. This will give you something to write in Hiragana and help comprehension.
-Think in Japanese. You may not understand now, but remember this.
-Don't burn out. You can't learn the language in a month.
-Keep your chin up. As you will see, the path is a hard one at times, as you will see, but I guarantee that it's worth it.
-I suggest picking up a book to help you. I recommend the Japanese For Young People Student Book. It will teach you the ropes. As for Kanji, the Tuttle Kanji Cards are pocket-sized and of excellent quality.
Japanese certainly isn't for the faint of heart or the lazy, but it's far from an impossible language to learn. Knowing only one language is like sitting in a room with no windows. Learning a different language opens up your mind, and you will come out a better person.
And lastly, don't let people get you down. These days, there is so much talk these days of people moving to Japan to "get some fucks and make some bucks". These are the people who live in Japan for a year or two, give gaijin a bad name, and spend the rest of the time complaining about message boards. Respect the culture, Respect the people, and you will be shocked.
If you have any more questions, just post them!
がんばってね! (ganbatte ne)