In what way was I proven wrong?
I wasn't playing "I'm better than you". That's your own perception. You've never heard a common way of phrasing it. The only explanation is that maybe you haven't heard quite as much as you like to think you have. In what way does pointing out that blindingly obvious fact equate to "I'm better than you"?
But gaijins resenting another gaijin telling them about some aspect of the Japanese language they didn't already know is as old as dirt and as common as stupidity, so I suppose I shouldn't be surprised to encounter it yet again. You remind me of a British lady I once knew who was studying for JLPT3. I offered to help her out if I could and in a voice just dripping with derision she replied, "I didn't come all the to Japan to learn Japanese from another
foreigner".
You're an extraordinarily thin-skinned touchy piece of work if you take offense and start the "you're arrogant" crap over something as simple as having mentioned a plain-as-the-nose-on-your-face
fact like your perhaps not yet having encountered the entirety of Japanese phrasing. Or would you have us believe that you
have?
Before you go off and sulk, though, please do point out how I was proven wrong.
If I'm wrong, then Toritoribe is also wrong; he already told you it is
not a matter of dialect. Have it your way, though. You obviously wandered in here wanting to be BMOC and show off your Japanese and you're in a bit of a snit to find that maybe you're not the hot snot you thought you were.
どこが違う = 23,800,000 hits
何が違う = 6,540,000 hits.
Maybe you ought to get out and pay a bit more attention to the Japanese being spoken around you. If your ignorance embarrasses you, strive to eliminate the ignorance rather than getting your a$$ on your shoulders and shooting the messenger.