Hi,
Sorry if this is a noob question, but why does stroke order matter? It seems to me that a lot of the fuss about memorizing kanji could be avoided if I just made up my own stroke order... I mean, heck, even with English, when I draw a lowercase "t", sometimes I do the vertical first and then the horizontal, or vica versa. Maybe for some of the really difficult kanji, learning a set stroke order would be useful as a memory aid... But some kanji are really easy to remember, like 本 for example, so why bother?
Doomo arigatou gozaimasu!
Raj