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Nice reference. And good point.yukio_michael said:It's just that sometimes, going up against thousands of years worth of [Japan's] self-imposed isolation, you realise that you're like Sysyphus...
Some do, though. Today I got a new student from Japan, and one of the first things she wanted to know was if the U.S. high school education system wanted to omit all the bad things we've done, like slavery, the Trail of Tears, and the Indian Wars. And she wanted to talk about how she disagreed with her government sweeping things like Nanking under the rug....you keep talking about it--- but nothing happens, nothing will change unless there is an open dialogue (in Japanese) with the people of Japan... and I don't think they wan't that dialogue.
No I didn't forget anything. I commented on your use of the word justified, because I disagreed with you. What happened to our grandfathers 60 years ago, is NOT jusitification for treating someone born 40 years later as if it was their fault.GodEmperorLeto said:I said it was justified. It's my opinion. By the way, you forgot how I said that it wasn't correct and that it was discrimination.
I'm assuming the first sentence ("the dictionary") was an ignorant attempt to patronize me, which would have been fine if it had a shred of credability. But since clearly you were too stupid to check for yourself, let me provide the definition for you.Try looking up "justify" in the dictionary. Just because you disagree with someone doesn't mean you should act like a jerk. That makes you just as guilty of intolerance as all the discriminators you lambast.
It's scarcely bearable to read your comments sometimes, they're so badly misinformed. Do you even understand the meaning of some of the words you throw around? It's a perfectly acceptable question to ask if someone born 40 years after atrocities ended should be held accountable for the crimes of their ancestors. It's not emotional; it's not a red herring, it's certainly not a logical fallacy. For pity's sake if you're going to try and construct an intelligent sounding argument, at least take your own advice and check the terms you use.And your "20-something, born 40 years after" comment was a logical fallacy called a "red herring" specifically of the emotional appeal type.
Err.. as I pointed out, I didn't... but let's continue your drivel anyway...Besides, if you want to get emotional,
If there's one thing I dislike more than idiots, it's idiots who twist what they said before to fit their current agenda. But then you'd never do that because you hate revisionist historians. Let me quote you again:you weren't at Nanking, you weren't in Korea, you have no right to stand in judgement either, especially if the shopowner lived through it. So you should get off your high horse.
Where did you say anything about living through Nanking or Korea? You just said "Chinese storeowners" period. Nowhere do I see me standing in judgement on someone who lived through the Nanking massacre.I'd say Chinese storeowners have a right to refuse them service.
No really, believe me, I don't. Your "reality" is a figment of your imagination.Oh, and by the way, you do live in my reality.
Eh? What are you talking about. I don't even understand who you're talking to now.[Whether or not you choose to bury your head in the sand is up to you,
And your point is, other than trying to big yourself up?but discrimination, prejudice, and hatred is everywhere in the world. I didn't make it this way, but I recognize it for what it is.
I consider myself accountable for my actions, and mine alone. I sympathise with people who have suffered at the hands of my 'people', but I'm not carrying their guilt.As a white, Christian, heterosexual male living in the United States I am constantly reminded of how everything bad in history is my fault, and how I owe everyone everything.
Have you lost the plot? Who are you talking to?It's probably where he gets most of it.
Too darn many.
Dingdingding! Bingo! Get that man a PBR!
GodEmperorLeto said:It's probably where he gets most of it.
Too darn many.
Dingdingding! Bingo! Get that man a PBR!Stinger said:Have you lost the plot? Who are you talking to?
Why do you limit the list within your own country? They've done more than that to "others", and it's still on-going.GodEmperorLeto said:Today I got a new student from Japan, and one of the first things she wanted to know was if the U.S. high school education system wanted to omit all the bad things we've done, like slavery, the Trail of Tears, and the Indian Wars.
osias said:Why do you limit the list within your own country? They've done more than that to "others", and it's still on-going.
I'm wondering why a country with "supposedly" a better education system can do so much aggression to others, and it's still on-going.
MeAndroo said:Haha, that question invokes odd feelings. Having spent time in Japan, and speaking the language to some extent makes me feel closer to that side. I'd say I probably side more with the victim mentality if only because my father grew up in Hawaii during Pearl Harbor, and some of his friends were interned in camps here on the mainland. I'm sure it was tough for them to be targeted by both sides, and that's who I sympathize with.
Then again, I'm 100% American. I don't define myself as Chinese or Japanese by nationality, only ethnicity. I see the world through an American's eyes, and though I've had the good fortune to live outside my home country for a period, will do so for the rest of my life. As such, I never really feel like a victim. I don't agree with many of the aggressive international political tactics used by my government past and present, so I don't feel like an aggressor either.
Maybe I took the question too seriously. I'll just say this: my Chinese American mom is much more aggressive than my Japanese American dad
Actually it's the Japanese youngsters themselves that carry those diseases and have no proper education about sex or how to use a condom.lu_bu1977 said:One of the most persistent justification for this "foreigner exclusion" policy is simply because of the underlying ignorance that foreigners (esp, Westerners and blacks) frequently carry with them venereal diseases, like HIV/AIDS. However a sobering fact is that, in most industralised nations (including Japan), there is an increasing incidence of HPV (papilloma) and HSV - herpes infections, both incurable, life-long diseases. These chronic diseases are now ravaging the young in many Western countries (e.g. 1-in-3 under 30 infection rates) with expected fertility problems in the not-so distant future.
lu_bu1977 said:Add1cti0n, as long as you do not frequent bordellos and the like, you should not encounter too many "No Foreigners" signs. Just so you know, the signs shown in the clip are definitely from brothels, bath-houses, etc. places of "intimate contact" so to speak.
Maciamo said:There have been cases of "no foreigners" signs in real estate agencies as well, although I haven't seen them myself (but I was told that they wouldn't serve me because I was a foreigner, even accompanied by my wife).
nice gaijin said:I have heard many stories of foreigners with Japanese spouses who had to send them out apartment/house-hunting on their own, because the likelihood of a foreigner getting a good apartment (even when they are married to a native) is low.
From what I've heard, the real-estate agents will say that this is not something they can control, just a preference of the landlord (and neighbors). This strikes me as a disappointing ignorance on the behalf of those who flat-out refuse foreigners because of whatever stereotypes they have. A foreigner who has managed to behave himself/herself long enough to marry a Japanese person shouldn't make that bad a neighbor, but the belief that the mere presence of a foreign resident in an apartment building somehow reduces the quality, purity, value, or peacefulness of the living space is a disheartening.
Kyoko_desu said:The Phillipino trainees I have mentioned several times on this forum are getting kicked out of the apartment they have been living for almost a year now
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The reason, from what I heard, is they stay up until late at night and play music, sing and dance real loud. The owner of the apartment said their neighbours have complained about those problems many times and he talked to our president about it but the problems weren't solved.
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It sure is wrong to do to generalize like this only after seeing how 5 young Phillipino guys were, but who can stop him? Renting his apartments to people is his business, he sure doesn't want his business to go bad, right? Then he probably will try to avoid every risk he could think of such as the current inhabitants get angry and leave his apartment and spread the rumor about the problems there and no one will come and rent them any more.... I assume those places that have "no gaijin" signs have more or less experienced some kind of problem caused by non-Japanese people.
Lastly, I admit that there are of course lots of troublemakers who are Japanese. The reason Japanese shop or apartment owners tend to make such a generalized idea about gaijin so easily must have something to do with our usJapanese-themgaijin-two-totally-different-things-that-will-never-mix opinion.
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Japan will change for the "better" (in my "westernized" view); the economic recovery Japan is experiencing is for a large part financed by foreign investors and entrepreneurs, and this will most likely affect Japan and its people's look on foreigners. I do not expect to experience any major changes during my lifetime though as I expect the changes to occur really really slow.
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From my own experience this is the main, although not the ONLY, reason why foreigners have a somewhat hard time renting an apartment or house. I have heard similar horror stories when living near a US Army base of GI's living off base who do the same things, wore shoes on tatami mats, play loud music and have loud binge drinking parties and generally trashed the place by Japanese standards. I heard the same stories when I was a student of how some foreign students, again not all, did similar things by not observing the local culture.Kyoko_desu said:The reason, from what I heard, is they stay up until late at night and play music, sing and dance real loud. (not every night, but many times) . They don't follow the city rule of sorting the garbage into several groups of materials and the rules of the day to put out the garbages on the spot the garbage truck picks them up.
Unfortunately he/she will probably now be more hesitant to rent to foreigners because of this or completely stop renting to them altogether. And, as you said, he/she has to think about the "wa" of the other tenents and neighbors.Anyway, what I'm really worried about now is:
The owner, who was at first open minded and welcomed those "gaijin", might now have a generalized idea, which is that "All the gaijin stay up late and make binges and they never follow the garbage rule."
Not in the least. Your English is very understandable. More so than some of the native speakers. I give you credit for keeping your own English level alive by participating in this forum. Besides, you bring a great Japanese perspective that is often lacking, and needed, on this board. Thanks.Awwww, sorry my English sucks! (If you find what is not understandable, please tell me, I will write in Japanese and ask someone to translate.)