To be honest--and those that know me would vouch for my being honest--I had not planned on posting again on this particular thread. Of course I have continued reading it. (as well as others too)
Unfortunately, perhaps, the development of statements on this thread has led me to reason that it would be good if I did post here again, so. . . I am posting here again. I would hope that those who may be interested, pay close attention and reason along with me chronologically, as well as logically.
Firstly, my first post (Aug. 2; 14:20--three min. after #2, 19 min. after OP) had asked nekocat san which
one of the three choices she (and she is a she--I take it) would chose. She had provided three choices, asking which one (or more) was correct.
Mars Man said:
I kind of wonder, nekocat san, just what you can make of that from the context itself.
Under the assumption that your level of English is proficient enough to understand the running dialog there (as provided by that site) with all its small cultural nuances that play a role, and all, which choice would you chose? MM
In my #7 post I further explained the motivation behind my first post:
Mars Man said:
Nekocat san--the jest of my desire in that first post was to encourage you to do what many learners of English here, in the Japanese education system--and often enough outside of it even--don't do; and that is use English...I would suggest that ... you answer your own question along with an argument supporting your understanding, and then 'testing' that by your presentation of it.
Up to the point of my first post, I do not, in any reasonable manner, see how one could construe my intention as being of 'ill will' or as 'barging in' on a thread. In fact, I would very strongly argue against that assertion.
Secondly, as of very late Thursday night (actually Firday morning) nekocat san had replied to #2 (some 36 min. after I had posted #3) but had failed to reply to my post--although I know that she checked my profile on Thursday afternoon, so should have known that I was a teacher of English, and thus should (I would think) have trusted my purpose.
I therefore then posted asking, in polite enough a manner, why she had not answered. (giving a couple of possible scenarios that could be reasons too) She then posted a response to that post #5 on Friday afternoon--Aug. 3rd.
Up to this point there is no real concern, per se, yet, it cannot be logically denied that she did not answer the original question, and yet went on to ask further questions. (which again, I didn't really mind--as should be obvious enough from my #7; second paragraph)
This, then brings us back around to post #7. I argue that there is
no debate up to this point. A careful investigation of my wording and the overall gist (thanks anjusan) will far more so than not show my effort to encourage 'testing' of ones knowledge. This is the type of 'questioning' that
more usually carries on in university level classes--not that of simple inquiry.
My effort was to enourage nekocat san to expand beyond the 'question-only' stage because--which you will catch if you do a very careful inspection of my wording--questioning in the inquiry manner only, only can go so far before the degree of knowledge furtherance decreases.
Now, it will become clear also, when one carefully notes my several posts, that I never once challenged any matter of homework ! Nevertheless, that symptom-like expression very much seems to have come to ones mind. . . in an almost telltale way. YET...I do not care to question that, nor go into it.
It will also be clear, that I only challenge the matter of questioning to the degree that a certain type of questioning can and often does prove to lose value at an increasing rate, and that the pertinance of a question should be taken into consideration relative to the field that it is in--in this case English
as a Foreign Language.
Nekocat san, I would have been pleased if you had considered my first post very carefully, and had acted on it. (here 'act on ' refers to taking some action, such as responding to, or doing reaserch on, and so on...) I did ask you which one you thought would be correct and you never told me. Don't worry, I have no bad feelings towards you because of that, but you are incorrect in saying that you clearly answered that question in your OP.
I would like to see you posting more and more in the other areas of the forum that interest you as well...as, little by little you are doing...BUT I would like to encourage you more with that. You're English level is high enough to do that, nekocat san !! Do not worry about the small details and fineries which will not impare your general conversational ability here on JREF--just use it !!


Mars Man (that
is my user name; just in case)