Living in JPN as spouse...

posidodo

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Hello everyone:

I am living in Japan since November 2013. Last Spring I changed from Temp Visitor to Spouse visa. A few weeks later I found a job at a Tokyo based estate agency. Well, it was not that job I applied for actually, but it was okay for the moment. During my short period it turned out that the team manager was just a sadistic idiot and the supervisor was visibly annoyed every time when I asked her to have a talk about my concerns. :bored: I felt more like a slave than an employee. Finally I was pissed off and did quit the job. On my way out I told the team manager that he is just a big a**hole without balls. Wow, what a feeling... :joyful:
Since then I am doing some freelance work for a friend's company based in my home country Germany. The income is so-so.

Those days I have to decide which way I want to go. One way is to return to Germany with my Japanese wife. But I feel very uncomfortable about that and I can feel that my wife does not want to go actually. I have a visa which allows me to stay and work here... but have to leave the country??:banghead: Another way could be to stay in Japan, look for another (stable) job and get my visa extension done next year in May. The second way is my preferred way.

But I have no idea where else I could look for a new job. I have a strong IT related background and my Japanese skills is conversational at the moment; not business skills at all. I tried Gaijinpot, Craigslist and even Hello Work. But no luck so far. Seems like there is a lot of fake going on on Craigslist. :spam: Recruiting agencies told me to improve my Japanese to have business at least or else they are unable to find a job for me (all of a sudden; not really... :meh:)

One of my ideas is to work for Microsoft in Shinagawa. o_O But I have no idea of their recruiting process. I am not an engineer nor a manager. Maybe management assistent as a start? I know some companies hire non-japanese speaking (foreigners) staff and provide in-house lessons in Japanese. Is this correct and does anybody know which companies?
My wife said "Work in Akihabara". Flyer distribution around the station? :cold: I am interested in technical things and anime and manga stuff. Shop staff? User-Help-Desk is something I would like to do as well. At least I have four years of working experience as IT staff in the military and an MCSE certification.
 
I'm purely guessing, but I bet the 'hire foreigners and teach them Japanese' really only applies to foreigners with other difficult to find skills. Why would someone want to invest the time and money to teach a shop staff person, help desk person or management assistant (do you have qualifications to be an assistant manager?) Japanese?
 
Many foreigners work in the electronics shops in Akihabara assisting foreign customers. As a speaker of German and English you may have an advantage. I don't know how much Japanese ability they require.

You may have to do some jobs you don't like until you develop enough Japanese skills to get a job you do like.
 
Many foreigners work in the electronics shops in Akihabara assisting foreign customers. As a speaker of German and English you may have an advantage. I don't know how much Japanese ability they require.

You may have to do some jobs you don't like until you develop enough Japanese skills to get a job you do like.

As far as I know Sofmap hires foreigners, mainly with Chinese and English skills; Korean is a plus. Duty Free shops do hire people with the same profile. One day my wife asked "Am I an China Town?" Those shops mainly require daily conversation skills in Japanese. My wife asked me to look on the TownWork website also. Seems to be a good source for part-time jobs...
 
The only thing I know to tell you is that dragging a Japanese woman outside Japan when she doesn't want to be outside Japan is a recipe for a miserable life for both of you....or divorce.

If you're not qualified to do here what you WANT to do, then you might have to swallow your pride and do what you CAN do, at least for a short while.

How are you doing on studying Japanese?
 
Hi Mike,

Divorce is not an answer for us. My wife would suffer. But today I can tell that I went to an interview this morning in Tokorozawa. It is a computer shop and they are looking for support staff. My wife found the job posting on a Japanese website on Wednesday. And they would accept me even with limited Japanese skills. Since this morning I feel much better. :joyful:

At the moment I am attending a Japanese course given by my home town twice the week. Basically, it is a beginner course and the teachers are volunteers. For me it is a polish up of grammar and vocabularies. And I do study at home daily. They do not offer a business course, but I do not have the money to attend a business course at a professional Japanese school. And there are plenty of language schools across Tokyo. I think the quality varies...
 
Very happy to hear that. Remember that we have a Learning Japanese section here and members who will be glad to help you.
 
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