yeeeeah, defending rules for the sake of being rules to me is a repugnant way to arrange your society. As a government employee I used to run into that kind of lazy thinking
all the time. "We've always done this way" is just another way of saying "we're used to this and change--
even/especially for the better--requires effort." In this case, even in the face of a growing cohort of women who are no longer silently tolerating these oppressive fashion rules, a bunch of men (who aren't personally affected by this rule at all) are trying to resist change, and aren't even providing any valid reasoning to do so.
Unfortunately, I don't think the end of foot-binding as a practice was a collective decision made for the sake of the affected women. For a long time, foot-binding was a sign of wealth, because a women who could barely walk clearly couldn't do any work and needed to be waited on. According to
this article there were several groups that sought to abolish foot binding cause it's a messed up practice inflicted on women (admirable), but it seems like it was the new government that ultimately put an end to widespread practice... as it was more because the practice was considered a symbol of China's backwards-thinking, and "natural" feet were considered more modern. Pretty much at every stage of this, women suffered as men made decisions about what they could do with their bodies; after the popular opinion of foot-binding shifted, women who had their feet crushed into those godawful tiny shoes were then shunned as a symbol of their country's backwards past. Like FGM and other horrible things done to women (often
by women) to appeal to the male gaze, this is one topic that never fails to piss me off.
Foot binding - Wikipedia
PS: @TGI-ECT, sorry for being nit-picky, but "stagnate (v) == become stagnant (adj)," you used it both as a verb and an adjective in your post. I made this part tiny cause I'm embarrassed by my own pedantry. Carry on!