The mediation system is also used when one spouse refuses to accept a divorce. Some spouses seek arbitration without telling their partners. But even foreign spouses who can easily converse in Japanese often face difficulties understanding legal specifics. "Language disadvantages make it impossible to have fair discussions," Kimura said. "All decisions should be recorded in documents." Muranishi of the group once attended a divorce mediation meeting as an English interpreter for a Filipino woman. "The arbitrator there listened only to the story of the Japanese husband," Muranishi said, adding that the wife struggled to speak in her poor Japanese, and her opinions were not taken seriously. Kimura participated in an arbitration session as a Thai interpreter but was told to leave the meeting room for "privacy reasons." "I was stunned by the fact that arbitrators lack an understanding" of the troubles facing foreigners, Kimura said. "I would like knowledgeable people to serve as arbitrators regardless of their nationality."